This will be heard to read for those who are empathic

Too many people interpret things badly and act irritable. Like the following example:

I was sitting with an elderly man in a coffee bar when the waitress came and called him Michael Jackson (you can intuit why)

Later when sad song came and I said my dad passed away and was crying, she said: "WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME? DONT EVER COME HERE AGAIN"

I wasnt in her face, i was at my desk, never drank alcohol, minding my own bussiness.

So people do purpousefully push me to isolate with their constant nitpicking, they think is witty. First she called me a sl*t in the worst way, then she yelled "NEVER COME HERE AGAIN". Which can sometimes be accompanied by threats of calling the police

I pay these people for coffee