Unsure
Hi, I am new to cup of tea. I found this site while searching for help and or resources on infidelity. I recently found out my significant other. Has been cheating while I am away with the kids.
I can't get past the overwhelming feelings.
He wants me to forgive and forget. I am not sure I am capable. My boundaries have been crossed and my trust is gone.
I have been holding it together in front of the 4 kids we have together. He keeps thinking it means everything is good. I don't know what to do or how to do it. I dont even fully know what I want. He is begging me to forgive him and acting like a totally different person. I feel so confused.
Hey, it’s quite a difficult situation you are in. So glad you taken the time to come here and talk about it. Sometimes just talking about it can help you sort out your feelings and the changes in them. It’s understandable that you are feeling betrayed. Trust is something easy to lose and hard to earn. You seem be quite strong valuable person.I am sending some warm rays of light your way and hope to hear more from you.