3 Tools to Reclaim Your Body Image in the Spring and Summer

"You may be living with or in recovery from an eating disorder, or maybe you just know what its like to experience body shame with the diet culture we live in. Spring and summer can be a trigger to restrictive urges, body comparisons, and self-judgement.

1. Practice mindfulness to neutralize your thoughts about your body.

• Reclaiming your body image doesn’t have to mean you love how it looks all the time or that you are never uncomfortable in your body. If that is our beginning goal, we may give up before we get there! Reclaiming your body image actually means that you can be with your body without the usual judgements or qualifications or evaluations and focus on living your life.
• Mindfulness (being with the present moment without judgement) provides a frame of mind to neutralize your experience in your body. Try using only objective, fact-based descriptors when thinking or talking about your body. For example, instead of “I hate my thunder thighs in these shorts,” try “I can feel the way my shorts fit around my thighs.”
• The next tool is to eliminate the label of "good" or "bad." So when you notice that you feel your shorts around your thighs, instead of thinking, “That’s bad (or gross or disgusting or another negative belief),” you can practice saying, “I am learning that this is neither good or bad. It just is.” We only believe it to be bad because of the rigidity of diet culture ideals!
• Lastly, when practicing mindfulness, don’t judge your judging. Its only natural that your mind will return to the habitual judgement patterns for a while. When this happens, simply name it: “I noticed a judgement thought.” Then give yourself permission to practice recreating a new, nonjudgmental thought to follow it up.

2. Surround yourself with anti-diet, Health at Every Size, body liberation messages.

• Whether we like it or not, our minds are very susceptible to repetitive messages, so its practically impossible for our thoughts to not be influenced by the broken record of diet culture.
• Good news! Because our minds are susceptible to repetitive messaging and our brain is malleable, we can counteract this by filling our daily thoughts with messages of body liberation, food neutrality, and self-acceptance. If you are a daily scroller, one powerful way of doing this is by taking time to personalize your social media feeds. Delete accounts that promote unhealthy thin or fitness ideals, diet mentality, restrictive wellness, and body shame, and instead follow supporters of Health at Every Size, anti-diet, intuitive eating, and body love perspectives. Reclaiming our body image means reclaiming the stories we are told about our body and self-worth and paying attention to only the messages we choose to believe.

3. Take the time to realize that you are so much more than your body.

• True body acceptance isn’t about always loving the way your body looks. It’s actually moving away from the idea that your body’s appearance is one of the most important aspects of you and toward a belief that you are much, much more than your body.
• You consist of values and morals and dreams. You hold the ability to create and nurture and play. Your worth is not determined by the shape of your flesh. Practice focusing on other aspects of yourself that make you, you!
• Listen to music you are interested in, have conversations that ignite your passions and open your mind, connect with others who see your light. Paint, draw, dance, play, laugh, cry, feel, care, grieve, inspire, be.
• The more we connect with the deeper, more intrinsic core aspects of ourselves, the more we lean into body acceptance; we begin to cherish this container that holds our soul and provides us an ability to love and explore and be. Then we can appreciate our body for what it offers us — a way to travel about this life, to feel the warmth of the sun, to connect with other beings and our senses. Create a list (remember your mindfulness skills here) of other aspects that make up who you are, and spend time each day engaging in these parts of you. Then, create another list of other ways your body can function for you during the warmer months besides as an illustration of your worth. Choose at least one to mindfully focus on each day!"

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✨Takeaway: Reclaim your joy and excitement for the warmer weather! Recognizing that your body is just one part of your identity is important. True body acceptance is being with the body without usual judgments or evaluations.

✨Reflection: How do you practice body-positivity?

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