Fed up
AngryTraumatizedGirl
February 25th
I m fed up of my husband who doesn't help me in chores I m tired of him he says its a womens job but i can't take it anymore nor I can divorce idk what to do i feel exhausted of household chores alone
Aayla
February 25th
@AngryTraumatizedGirl I'm so sorry about this. You are right to feel angry and frustrated. Taking care of a house is a job for every person who lives in it. By taking your work for granted and expecting you do his part too, he's disrespecting you and using your labor to his advantage.
If nothing else has worked and divorce isn't an option available to you at the moment, you can try to explore other routes. For example, what would happen if you stopped doing the work? Or you only did it for yourself (like washing only your clothes, cooking only for yourself...)?
