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Why am I so scared of being cheated on?

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Last Updated: 07/31/2018 at 5:40am
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Top Rated Answers
LadyMeow
February 8th, 2018 1:27pm
Have you been cheated on or betrayed before? Usually that's the reason people have a high level of fear. Or was a family member betrayed? Don't let that fear stop you from getting into a relationship. Also, when you do get into a relationship don't let this fear get the best of you and become suspicious of every little thing. That will cause the relationship to end because who wants to be constantly watched or accused of cheating. Just let yourself be open to being with someone and trust they are faithful. If you dont' have trust then you will never have a good relationship.
suttonnn
December 11th, 2017 7:11pm
We are often scared of being cheated on due to the fact that we start having thoughts of not being good enough or not being loved. We are afraid that we will never get that person back. Being afraid of being cheated on can leave you afraid of future relationships and the loss of trust and can get in the way of something good happening.
Anonymous
July 31st, 2018 5:40am
Well...being cheated on is hurtful.It also makes you feel like you weren't good enough,felling like you're not good enough for someone is probably what your scared of.
GodLoveYou
January 9th, 2018 6:51am
Can be your own insecurity problem. Can be his cheating history or flirting personality.
zenGuy
January 29th, 2018 3:42am
I know the feeling and it is purely insecurity, make sure your partner knows that you need affirmation and I'm sure they'd be happy to prove their loyalty to you as long as you are not judgemental or accuse them of anything.