Why do I only think about the good qualities my ex had instead of the bad ones as well?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Feb 10, 2015
LiLee
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Jan 12, 2015
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I personally think we all have to think about the good things we lived with someone, not the bad ones. Even though the relationship didn´t work out, this person made part of your life, and somehow contributed to it. Take the good memories to be remembered, get the bad memories and use it as a learning to yourself, about what you don´t like or what you don´t want to repeat in your life again. Always see life with love and optimist!
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