Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
Profile: AceVIILX
AceVIILX on Jul 7, 2016
...read more
Being single is an often overlooked relationship status that has many, many benefits attached to it. In a single relationship, we often feel we are alone, or we lack a companion. This couldn't be further from the truth; as in all things, the greatest companion we shall ever have is ourselves. Being single provides a time to reflect upon oneself, to see what they can do to better their relationship with themselves. It is a time where we are free to explore what makes us truly happy, and find our passions in life. In fact, the more time we spend building our inner relationship with ourselves, the happier we can make our future companions. A wise individual once stated, 'You cannot truly love another until you love yourself.' And being single is the the path to finding that self-confidence, and love. And once you are ready to transition into a relationship, you'll find yourself much more confident and happy, and your future partner will notice it as well.
Breakups can be hard
Take the Free Wellness Quiz
Gain insight & track progress for anxiety & depression
Talk to a Licensed Therapist
Online chat & video therapy at your fingertips
Help keep 7 Cups free

Takes less than a minute. Keeps 7 Cups free for someone else.

A small contribution goes straight to keeping the community running.

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 14, 2016
...read more
You can feel happy about being single as you have no responsibility to another human being. You have freedom.
Profile: SereneBlueberry
SereneBlueberry on Nov 13, 2016
...read more
I think everyone is different, if you are not happy being single, but you want to be, or you are afraid to get close to anyone, then you have a bit of a problem, definetly. Some people do well independently, some people do not, but from my own personal experience, when I was single, I was often lonely myself. But I think being single can be good, too. It means lots of freedom, but at a cost. Same with being in a relationship. It means companionship, but you may not have the freedom to do everything you wish you could. To sum up, don't make yourself like something you don't. If you are naturally independent, and relationships are almost chores, don't be pressured into finding someone just because your friends say you should, as well as if you are single, and your friends say how wonderful it is, but you disagree. Do what you need to do to be happy, regardless of the pressure you feel from others.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 16, 2016
...read more
Being single means you'd have time to find yourself.. and once you'd find yourself..you would love yourself more.. and it makes easy to love other person as well.. so stop worrying.. start being happy with yourself.. and definitely it would bring a change in your life.
Profile: snehasmile94
snehasmile94 on Jun 16, 2016
...read more
being single can be the best time of your life when your time is completely yours and you can use it to the best utilization for yourself....! learn to love and nourish yourself at first is very important before loving anyone else....you can only love someone if you learn to love yourself first...!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 26, 2016
...read more
There are many things to be happy about. I understand the feeling and why you think that way. But believe me, it's amazing all the things you can do for yourself and alone. You can actually be around your friends and have amazing days with them. You can go out randomly whenever you want to and wherever you feel like going. Spend more times doing things you love and you're passionate about, discovering more stuffs about yourself. I bet you will find someone in the right time, let it happen.. don't force it!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 30, 2016
...read more
To feel happy about being single, you must realize that no one person should be the only reason you are happy. happiness comes from you. you must be happy and okay with being alone sometimes.
Profile: maskedanonymous
maskedanonymous on Jul 2, 2016
...read more
Enjoy life, Enjoy yourself. Always think that there's a whole life ahead of you. Don't get jealous of other people who are in a relationship. You're also in one. You're in a relationship with yourself.
Profile: juhirashOA
juhirashOA on Oct 19, 2017
...read more
Being single is not a disease or calamity that it should leach away your happiness. There is a reason why a person remains single. Maybe it heartbreak, or the absence of someone you an connect with on a deeper level, or it could just be a desire to have your own space. So ask yourself, would it be better to not be single but fight everyday? Or be with someone you do not love? Or be with a person who you commit your entire self to? If you find that you can tolerate any of the above options, then give yourself free reign over feeling unhappy about being single. If not, make your own company a means of deriving satisfaction. And you will find yourself enjoying life on your own. :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 31, 2018
...read more
While there are benefits to being in a relationship that can be missed when you are single, there are definitely benefits to being single as well. When you are single, you have more time! Take this time to do anything you want! Learn a new hobby, language, or skill. Get healthier. Read books. Anything! When you are single you can focus on making your own life better, more exciting, or anything else you want it to be. If you spend the extra time while single lingering on the fact that you are single, it will be hard to be happy. Use the time instead :).
Profile: OptimisticCareBear
OptimisticCareBear on Mar 17, 2018
...read more
Being single can make you feel lonely and like you're unloved, but this gives you more time on focusing on friends and family. You are able to take up new hobbies, focus on your personal interests, go on adventures and not feel like you're neglecting your partner. You can spend time building better relationships with your family and friends so that you're able to have a good, healthy support network.
Profile: Maryanna
Maryanna on Jun 21, 2018
...read more
Enjoy life, find a purpose and do something that makes you happy. Find out more about yourself and what activities do you like. Busy yourself and most importantly love yourself.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 16, 2016
...read more
Pay more attention to yourself. Relationships oftentimes cause a lot of stress on both parties involved. A good way to think about a break up is, "Now I can go to the mall" or "Now I can hang out with my friends". It can be refreshing to take care of yourself a little more. If you're a girl, perhaps a makeover, a chick-flick marathon, or just a good book could be your getaway. If you're a guy, maybe a night with the guys, a video game night, or maybe, once again, just a good book would be a nice getaway.
Profile: ThaliaRaven
ThaliaRaven on Jul 22, 2016
...read more
Just look at the fact from a different angle - try to see the positives, what it brings. You are on your own, free to do anything (legal, haha). Don't be so pesimist about being a single, there is a whole bunch of people single on this planet and yet they are happy too :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 13, 2018
...read more
Appreciate the little things in life, look at what you have here and now. You are a whole person by yourself, you have your interests and your passions and have people around you that you love. That's so many things that can make you feel whole
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 20, 2018
...read more
You should be happy whether you are in a realationship or not, you have friends and family who love you and being happy isn't only about love, it's about what you do and who you help. Everyone is happy inside.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 21, 2018
...read more
Spend time with yourself, get to know yourself, recognise the ways in which you can make yourself happy and be your own fulfillment. Being single isn't a death sentence like how most people make it out to be, but it isn't easy to get to a place of realising that. It requires work and honesty with yourself in the understanding of yourself, in particular the deconstruction of why you feel the want or need to be in a relationship.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 26, 2018
...read more
Take the time to LOVE YOURSELF! CARE FOR YOU! MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY! This time is all about self love!
Profile: sam06
sam06 on May 6, 2018
...read more
By believing that you're enough. And that you don't particularly 'need' someone to be happy and satisfied in your life. One find day, your world will collide with someone else's, and you'll fall in love. And maybe then, you'll just choose to be with him/her, because you 'want' him/her, not because you 'need' him/her.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 9, 2018
...read more
This may seem like one of those cliche things that people say, but being single makes you free to do anything and everything! Most people have a hard time having a life out of their relationship, and being single gives you exactly that. You can go out with your friends, explore and meet new people, or you can just be at home read a book or watch TV, it's all up to YOU!!
Share a Helpful Insight
Sharing helps others and its therapeutic for you.
0/150 Minimum Characters
0/75 Minimum Words