How can I stop thinking about someone I want to forget?
Anonymous
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Feb 1, 2016
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If the crush isn't too consuming, we could simply enjoy the sensations. If it's too difficult, my suggestion would be time and distance. We could also try focusing on filling our lives with other things. More meaningful things, we can manage, such as personal goals. If we keep our mind empty or unchallenged, it will wander.
Breakups can be hard
aamdna
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Apr 23, 2015
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The best thing to do is to stay busy so you're distracted and thinking about other things. It also helps to not talk to them anymore if you still do. Another thing that helps is to delete or block them from all social media so you don't see them anymore; out of sight, out of mind! Good luck!
evalis
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May 23, 2016
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The more you wanna forget someone the more you will remember them. So stop trying to forget and accept they were a part of you life and try to move on.
Anonymous
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Sep 7, 2015
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Acknowledge the feeling. Think of something unpleasant immediately afterwards. Or allocate a time to think of the person and try not to do it outside that period.
Hometown2017
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Dec 19, 2016
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I will be honest i am in the same situation. I think that it helps if you dont see this person or do something that reminds you of this person. Because when you do that its hard to forget. One thing i was doing was trying to fix the problem. By constantly talking to this person and engaging. Now i havent really talked to this person and that helps.
IngeniousBanana
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Aug 6, 2018
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I know how you feel, i've been there, many times, time is only thing capable of doing such a thing, when i was in your situation i read a quote "Even the strongest feeling, if unrequited eventually fades". I didn't belive it at the time, i thought it wasn't true and yet one day i came to realize that it was true all along. Some days you will still find yourself thinking about that person because getting over real love ain't easy, but believe me eventually you will.
Celty
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Jan 15, 2015
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You can use distraction (sport, art), talk to some interesting people about things you love, organize something big like a travel or a party, realize that you're the only one who realy deserve your attention (yeah, you should think about you first), and do all the things that make you feel happy, and try new things ! Adventure is always exciting, it helps us to build very strong personality. :)
Anonymous
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Feb 16, 2015
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Distracting yourself from thinking about them as much as possible!Trust me you can do it!I believe in you!
coffeeok2
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Jul 13, 2015
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Acknowledge to yourself that your spending too much energy thinking of this person. Make a commitment that whenever you find yourself thinking of this person, you acknowledge the thought and tell yourself to think of something else. Be consistent and be gracious to yourself. It could take some time...
PaloP
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Aug 18, 2015
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Time is all you need. One day, without notice, you realize that you don't think in that person. It's simple at all.
Anonymous
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Dec 21, 2015
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keep you'r mind on other things get out for a walk, talk to a friend , go shopping and when you don't expect it you will forget the person all together .
4thepeople20
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Feb 8, 2016
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Truth is, if you are still thinking about them, then your subconscious isn't ready to let go yet. My advice would be to find something to occupy your time.
withyouforever
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May 20, 2015
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There are instances when we think about a person. Maybe a particular song, a place or anything. To forget that person, you must foresee such circumstances and try to avoid them completely.
TheGirlInMyMirror
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Jun 5, 2015
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I understand it can be hard on your side to get over a loved one. as a friend, I would suggest you to indulge in activities that give you happiness. try taking up a hobby, that might drift you off from the pain.
Anonymous
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Jul 21, 2015
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try to block that person from your mind. block them on social medias or don't call them etc...
Thefreudianslippers
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Aug 17, 2015
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realize if this person is worth remembering asking your self this questions: " Is this person contributing to my life in a positive way or negative way. Become aware that this person is someone you want to forget. Coming to terms as to what the person has done to you helps with the process of moving on. Make the commitment to leaving this person in the past. Lastly, why are you giving this person so much power chances are this person has moved on, and it's time you did as well.
daniiii
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Mar 7, 2016
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Meet new people. And think about the bad things from the person you want to forget.. perhaps makes it easier.
ChainsGoneSetFree
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Jun 13, 2016
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Tell me why you want to forget the person. Talking it out may help with your perspective. It might help to be intentional about focusing on other good aspects of your life.
Anonymous
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Jul 12, 2016
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I don't think you can ever completely forget someone, but by letting go of the anger or sadness they brought you will help.
Josehelpx
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Feb 6, 2017
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Distract your mind! Go out with friends, go for a run, go for some food, watch a film, listen to music, try your best to divert your attention and it becomes much easier :)