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How do I tell my boyfriend I want to have a baby?

Profile: WoundedHelper
WoundedHelper on Mar 16, 2016
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When telling your boyfriend you want a child be calm and collective. Understand how he would react to your question and think over what you will say.
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Profile: lovinghope
lovinghope on Jan 17, 2016
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First of all, that's so cute. And another thing is you must go straight away to him and ask him about it. Most probably he will say yes. If he don't, then ask him the reason. Be frank. And fearless in front of your love.
Profile: FindYourStrength01
FindYourStrength01 on Feb 4, 2016
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Perhaps pick a relaxing time when you are both comfortable maybe cuddling in bed, or taking a walk together. Just remember it will likely be best if instead of saying "I want" maybe say "I think we should" or "I feel" or maybe even ask "how would you feel if we had a baby?" that way you get his perspective as well, perhaps this will make it easier.
Profile: Chinup221
Chinup221 on Feb 24, 2016
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Just sit down with him and ask him how he feels about having a kid. Make sure that you're that only girl/woman that he wants. You need to make sure you really love eachother and are willing to fight for eachother and that baby.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 7, 2016
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Hey baby, I am thinking that we should take out relationship to the next level and I feel that were ready to have a baby :)
Profile: wonderousHeart14
wonderousHeart14 on Feb 14, 2016
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I'd start off by asking what things they are working towards in life? Do they see themselves having a house, a new car, marriage, children? Let them know things that you are hoping to achieve in life and things that you're working towards. You can't get mad at a person for being honest and telling them that having a baby is something that you would really like to do, and that you feel it is your time to do so. Just approach the subject delicately.... :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 12, 2016
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If your communication is open then "What do you think about having a child?" should be a fine opening gambit. It gets the idea out there that you're interested, but also solicits his feedback rather than simply coming off as a flat demand.
Profile: SunshineSailing
SunshineSailing on Apr 6, 2016
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Communication is key in any relationship. Find a time to sit down with your partner and discuss your desires in a calm, healthy way. Be prepared to listen to the reasons for whether he shares your desires or not.
Profile: sereneCreature61
sereneCreature61 on Feb 3, 2016
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I think this is one of those things you just have to come out and say it. You may feel apprehension about how he may react--worst case he may not want to, and will find that you should separate. That is probably something that is holding you back from telling him what you want. Think of it this way: the longer you wait, the more time you will have spent having a secret desire you can't share. It will spill over into your life. You will feel resentment. If the worst case scenario does happen, and your boyfriend does not want to have a baby with you, then you have the option to move on and find someone who does. In this conversation, you may also find that there are other factors involved in why you want to have a baby, whether it's an appropriate step for you alone, for you together, or at this point of time. Be open to the conversation that can happen in guiding you with this decision.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 20, 2016
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You and your boyfriend should discuss what you want your future prospects to be. Decisions such as starting a family, money, moving and so forth, can be very daunting, however discussing this with loved ones is wonderful as you know that these people love you and care for you. Be prepared for any scenario that you and your boyfriend might have, come in with an open mind and heart. Listen to his side and discuss various points together.
Profile: briaannasaurus
briaannasaurus on Jan 24, 2016
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Ask your boyfriend how he sees the future of the relationship and where it is headed. See if his views match up with yours and introduce/bring up the idea of having a child together. Of course, make sure you have enough money to support the three of you.
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Ask his opinion about babies next time you see a baby on tv or on the street and say you would like to have one. It's important to stay calm if he says he doesn't feel ready yet and explain why you feel ready (eg you have enough money and stable jobs, a house, you feel you know how to take care of someone that depends on you). Good luck!
Profile: trouvaille
trouvaille on Feb 3, 2016
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Open communication. There are no hints or getting around a straightforward conversation ESPECIALLY on a life changing topic like this. Be honest, be truthful, and be open to a discussion.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 24, 2016
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If you have been with your boyfriend for a while now. And you both love eachother dearly. Then don't be afraid! Who knows he might actually want one too.
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Anonymous on Jan 15, 2016
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Having a baby is a big decision. You must think about it. And so does your boyfriend. So before talking about it with your partner, you must be sure, that this is really, what you want to do. But when you are totally sure, that you want a baby, then you can go for a walk (for example) and when you pass playground or sth you can ask him, does he wants babies.
Profile: Righthere321
Righthere321 on Jan 21, 2016
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Tell him, this is where you are in your life amd you see it being with him. Talk face to face. If the time.isnt ready for.him, see what you can to to make him more comfortable at the idea. Starting a family is a big.thing. Dont pressure him. But do talk about it
Profile: Brandon1997
Brandon1997 on Feb 18, 2016
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Try to bring up the concept of having a baby. Maybe talk hypothetically about it. Try to get him to understand the joy it would bring the pair of you and how you feel he would be as a father. Remember to always be truthful. If he seems open to discussions and suggestions about the topic then you can say that you have been thinking about it and that you want one. This will implant the idea of having a baby before you ask it so he will be less shocked or surprised and by talking about the positives beforehand. The positives will be the first thing he thinks of when you ask
Profile: colorfulSummer66
colorfulSummer66 on Feb 27, 2016
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Be honest. A strong relationship needs to be built on trust. Sharing how you feel is a big part of that.
Profile: Lightyourlife
Lightyourlife on Mar 11, 2016
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Just go and tell him. Men like simple, straight up stuffs so yeah, he'll be happier if you just break the news to him.
Profile: NymphadoraTonks22
NymphadoraTonks22 on May 19, 2016
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You need to sit down with him and calmly explain your wishes and feelings. Try to understand his side of the story and his reasons if he has oposite opinion than you
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