How do you find the words to break up with someone, when they have done nothing wrong, but you don't feel the same?

You are great person n I do like you a lot.. but I don't feel the same about you.. maybe because I changed or my priorities changed.. I am so sorry.. but being in this relationship would be like cheating you and me both

The whole "it's not you, it's me" thing would only make the person feel worse as its extensively overused and not in the right situations. Being honest really helps in these cases. Tell them that you do not feel that spark anymore. Be very honest but considerate of their feelings

This can be an extremely tricky situation. The first thing I would recommend doing is stepping back and asking yourself why you want to break up with them, and if the roles were reversed, what you would want from them. In this instance, if it is safe to do so, sit down with them in person, and talk about your reasoning (of course in a compassionate way). The thing to remember is that you likely aren't going to avoid them being hurt. But, once that hurt fades, they will look back on everything and want answers, and an explanation. If you can give them that closure, it could make a difference. Although they might be upset at the time, they will be alright, and will eventually see that you were able to handle it and treat them with respect.

Be honest with them. Although it might hurt their feelings now, you're saving them the pain, trouble, and time because it's most likely not going to work out in the end if you don't feel the same way. You're probably going to end the relationship at one point later if not now. Be honest and tell that person that you do not feel the same way, and you are not their one. Let them know that they will move on in their life and find someone more compatible, and that they still have future relationships. Be there kindly and comfort them. Good luck!

The best thing is to just be honest - Your partner deserves that at least. It's ok to not share the same feelings as your significant other, you just have to say it as it is and move on.

This is especially difficult when your partner is very dedicated and devoted, but you simply don't feel attraction or love for them. The best answer I could give you is to be completely honest. Tell them it isn't their fault, but that you simply cannot be in a relationship where you don't feel romance for the other person. My best advice is that you don't make up excuses, but instead be totally honest. It won't be easy, but that was the best route for me.

Breaking up with someone just because you feel like it is the right thing to do can be difficult and also painful for the person initiating the breakup; I think once you convince yourself that you are truly breaking up that person because it is the right thing for you and that you are ready to move on, the words will just come to you. Don't make up reasons or point out little faults in the other person just to make them feel like it is their fault. It is no one's fault; feelings can change over time and there is nothing wrong with that.

Just be honest with them. Somethings aren't meant to be even though there is nothing wrong with them.

I would tell them that you don't understand what happened and you would like them to tell you what happened.

I think it's best if you keep the focus mainly on yourself instead of the other person (avoid blaming). 'I think we should go our separate ways because I need... , or I'm not ready for... ' I also think it's best to start with something like 'I think we should go our separate ways' before giving an explanation or reason. If you start with the reason the other person might think there's hope of working things out. And lastly let them know that you wish them the best. And if it feels that they might be receptive to it, remind them not to settle... they deserve someone who will appreciate all that they have to offer (as do you, which is why you're breaking up).

I have personally experienced this and it is so so difficult. The words I used were that I do love them but as a friend. I told them they had done nothing wrong and that we simply weren't meant to be. I think the most important thing is to be honest. It's easy to try to ease the blow and give hope but that isn't fair. Remember that whoever it is deserves to be with somebody who feels the same as they do :)

It's very difficult to break up with someone, especially when you feel no ill will towards them. Remember, your feelings are important and if you decide this person isn't right for you-you owe it to yourself and that person to come clean. It's not going to be easy and the person will be hurt, but isn't that better than being untrue to yourself? Try not to beat yourself up and this person will get over it and move on.

Breaking up isn't easy, but the key to finding the right words is being honest. Be honest with them and explain "I don't feel the same way you do and I don't wish to pursue this relationship any longer". Don't get caught up in bad break up clichés and say "Its not you, its me". Stick to the truth, avoid any unnecessary compliments of the other person and just speak your truth.

i had to do this a couple days ago it broke my heart, but the best thing to do is reassure them that you would rather be alone and that they are an amazing person

I really don't know ..maybe give them the time to hate us .. so they can stop feeling the same ..it's not always there fault that we had moved on with our emotions while they still in the same place .. maybe give them the time to see the worst in us .. that's the least we owe them ..

You gently explain tot them that you don't feel the same way about them anymore> reassure them that it isn't something that they've done specifically, it's just that you feel the spark is gone. Make sure to do this as gently and comforting ad possible, it's difficult to deal with a break up. Hope this helps x

You could always try telling them the truth. Telling them that you two don't feel the same anymore might hurt their feelings a little but at least they'll know why you broke up with them

It's better to be truthful with someone rather than drag things out and hurt them more in the end. Try not to be harsh or brutal but also be honest; find the balance. You either love someone or you do not, that is one of life's great mysteries. Ultimately, the other person deserves someone who is absolutely crazy about them. And you deserve someone who you can be absolutely crazy for. Try and be friends, sometimes it's a possibility, sometimes not. Don't force it if the other person is not willing.

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts. But long-term it will be less damaging for you and the other person involved to be honest. With that, do also explain the reason(s) why you're not wanting to be with them anymore. Tell them that you don't feel the same as you used to, and that is why you want to discontinue the relationship. It's not them personally, but your feelings are not the same and that it's not fair to anyone to continue something that will be a stalemate and cause more damage long term.

It's hard to talk about each others feelings, but firstly you have to ask yourself: do you want to end this relationship so he/she can find someone who feels the same way, or do you want to keep lying to you and your partner? The first choise is propably the one that you find better. So tell about your feeling calmly and talk with friendly voice. If you can, you could suggest being just friends if that's okay with your partner.