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Why does this have to happen to me?

Profile: Anggi
Anggi on Jul 19, 2015
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I know something has happened to you and it's really unfair, but sometimes that just how the world works whether we like it or not. However, this doesn't mean that there is nothing you could do about it, even though you might feel that way at the moment. There is always something that can help you make it better, even if it just makes it a tiny bit better :)
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Profile: KendallNichole
KendallNichole on Dec 7, 2014
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I can't really tell you why unfortunately. Things happen to us for many reasons. Some of the things may hurt.. a lot, but everything does happen for a reason. The second that you open up and accept that is the second you'll be able to truly live your life in a somewhat peaceful way :) best of luck with everything
Profile: lovelyLynx18
lovelyLynx18 on Jun 21, 2015
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Break ups happen to everyone at one point in their life. Just look around you. Every couple has their ups and downs. But at one point you will get over it. You will move on and it will get better. Even I have thought "why did this happen to me?" but I will tell you from experience that it does get better.
Profile: niceMermaid44
niceMermaid44 on Jun 26, 2015
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It's happen to everyone. You are not the only one. Soo.. don't feel sad or anything else.
Profile: NickJFan2
NickJFan2 on Jul 3, 2018
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It does not just happen to you, it happens to everybody, we all go through dark times and phases, it might be hard, it might take time, but one day you'll get through it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 30, 2014
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Sometime we must stop asking "Why me ?" ... Sometime we must ask "Why not me? " ....sometimes we must try to say that "I can deal with all the problems life can throw at me and at the end no matter what I WILL stand victorious"
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 21, 2015
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Life is occasionally cruel but I've lived believing that a pain today could be a bigger happiness tomorrow and not once have I found that to be wrong. You're the same, the pain you are facing now is nothing compared to the happiness you will feel later. You're amazing and you can get through it. When you do, you can enter Utopia but for now you need to pass through this Hell to get there.
Profile: KuyaEthan
KuyaEthan on Jan 16, 2018
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Things happen positively or negatively in everyone's life as a personal experience and a lesson. Some things aren't always deserved as suffering from Loss, but if I will take over these experiences I'd call them as "Reminders". Yes, it is painful to struggle on negative impacts of these things yet it's amazing to feel better on the positive impacts. The point is,"Some things happen for a reason". As Oogway the Master Turtle/Tortoise quotes, "There are no accidents". I've been through a lot as well positively and negatively but it didn't stop me from moving on and making sure I leave a positive impact towards others in this world I live in. Be strong out there!
Profile: pepper29
pepper29 on Nov 25, 2014
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Everything happens for a reason. your only human to feel that way. always remember tomorrows a new day and whatever happen to you will be the past and all you can do is stay positive and move forward. time heals everything.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 25, 2014
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God has his very own plan for us and we must learn how to trust Him because sometimes His plans are better than our dreams
Profile: hereiskaitlyn
hereiskaitlyn on Nov 26, 2014
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Life is never easy; it always has its ups and downs. You are not alone, do not even think of that for a second. There will always be someone to help you to talk about what is going on in your life. Life is not easy, but if you have the right resources, it does not have to be difficult. All the best!
Profile: Life705
Life705 on Mar 15, 2015
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Just because bad things keep happening to you, doesn't mean that you deserve it, or that you did something wrong. Sometimes bad things keep happening to us through no apparent fault of our own. We should never take it personally and interpret it as if was our fault.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 23, 2015
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We all ask ourselves, why dos this happen to me? We all want to know why but we never get that answer do we?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 30, 2015
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Aw, honey, sometimes bad things happen to good people. You don't deserve it, but hey, look at the bright side, at the end of the day you'll come back stronger than you've been before. You are not alone.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 30, 2015
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That's the question everyone wants the answer to. To be honest who knows why it happens to you or to anyone. But keep going and someday you'll find the answer
Profile: NDS369
NDS369 on Jul 9, 2015
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Maybe because you are better than the other person who feels either insecure or inferior. Or maybe (ask yourself) "Hope I wasn't too possessive and demanding?"
Profile: butterflykisses27
butterflykisses27 on Jul 11, 2015
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I am not sure what happens to you? You might have to be more specific so I can understand be able to help you.
Profile: Stormearth
Stormearth on Jul 12, 2015
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Things sometimes happen for a reason but sometimes it doesn't. Never blame yourself for bad luck and never let your self down because of one problem
Profile: CharlotteBanana97
CharlotteBanana97 on Jul 21, 2015
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Why does anything happen to anyone? It is all part of how we live and how we have to grow and learn to become a stronger person.
Profile: LOV1NGCH1CK
LOV1NGCH1CK on Jul 30, 2015
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Things happen to everyone. U cant change it but u can learn to either avoid or to go for it its up to you
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