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I have been depressed for so long that I dont remember what are "normal thoughts". What are the difference between normal and depressed thoughts?

Profile: peculiarMango
peculiarMango on Mar 15, 2015
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Depressed thoughts are a reflection of the unbalanced chemicals in your brain. Normal thoughts are the reflection of who you truly are.
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Anonymous on Jun 10, 2015
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I know what you feel.. I have been depressef long time, too. I also don't know the difference between normal and depressed thoughts, I just don't have thoughts, I'm like "heartless", and I also don't have facial expression, people don't know when I'm happy or when I'm sad.
Profile: HereWithYou314
HereWithYou314 on Feb 23, 2016
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That is a great question! Depression can be insidious because it can creep on so slowly that over time it becomes the new normal. What's so awful about this is it can cause you to forget what it was like before, which makes it all the more difficult to want to reach out for help because you're sitting here thinking "what's the point" or "there's nothing better." From my experience when you have any thoughts along those lines, those are depressed thoughts. When there isn't joy in looking towards the future... you guessed it, depression. I often times have to do a mental check in with myself to see how I'm doing and one of the questions I ask myself is if I'm excited for upcoming XYZ event or plan. If the answer is no... then I'm depressed and need to do some self care. Hope this helps!
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Anonymous on Feb 12, 2015
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That depends on the context. We all feel sad or suffer from low self worth now and again, but if you feel chronically hopeless, worthless, and low, chances are that's the depression talking.
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Anonymous on Jun 7, 2015
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There is no normal thoughts and depressed thoughts. Its just our perception of it. The thoughts may look really good to a positive person and bad to a negative person. Like this famous example of half empty cup and half full cup. The difference is nothing but the mindset and perception of the situation. If u look at it in a positive way it will look good, negative way and it will look bad.
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YouveCatToBeKitten on Feb 12, 2015
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I would say that depressed thoughts are nothing but negative thoughts that upset you and make you feel nothing but a range of bad feelings. Normal thoughts I would say are just the everyday thoughts that someone has about their life.
Profile: FriendlyEar
FriendlyEar on Jul 7, 2015
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I don't think there are any differences in the normal course of events - the difference is maybe how you perceive them. For example, its a sunny day. If you feel depressed, its still sunny, but the sun does not warm you - physically or spiritually. There will be underlying reasons why you are feeling depressed, and a healthier use of your time will be to nail these down and deal with them. Some will be easy to nail down, others much harder. When these reasons are under control - hopefully solved, but some reasons can never be solved - you will find the sun to be a bit warmer.
Profile: Sunset316
Sunset316 on Sep 29, 2015
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Depressed thought arises from thinking that there is nothing good left in this world. Not believing in yourself will not do you any good. Guys, no matter what, NOTHING is impossible. Whatever you're being thrown into, there is a way to fight it and get out of it. Normal thought gives us hope that we can achieve something no matter what life throws at us. You're beautiful ♥ Don't give up hope. ♥
Profile: calidreeeamer
calidreeeamer on Jun 30, 2015
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Your thoughts are your thoughts. Negative thoughts are the hardest to get through. Anything that can feel overwhelming, overpowering, or scary can be tough. If you are thinking you're feeling these depressed thoughts, contact a 7 Cups member or the National Help Hotline immediately.
Profile: Waterbear
Waterbear on Jul 27, 2015
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There really is no sharp dividing line between "normal" and depressed thoughts, because depression IS normal and depressed people are generally not delusional, except about their own self-worth and whether there is hope for their futures. Depressed thoughts can be subtle and sneaky and mostly revolve around thinking bad things about yourself and predicting that bad things will happen. If you're extra sneaky and clever like me you'll tell yourself that it's not that you're a bad person, it's just that you have "low market value." And, confusingly, this might even be true, but it might not mean what you think it means, because not everyone is looking for the same thing. Anyway, if you're feeling confused about the difference, try sticking to the facts. A "fact," as I'm using the term, means any statement that can be proved or disproved. So "it is raining" is a fact, "I am crying" is a fact, "the milk went sour" is a fact. "I'm ugly" is not a fact, "I'm never going to get a girlfriend" is I guess technically provable but not until you're dead so for the moment it is not a fact, "I'm a flake and that's why everyone hates me" is not a fact. "I feel crappy" may not be measurable and provable but we will assume for the sake of discussion that it is a fact, since we don't have any way to measure feelings and it is a simple statement of how you feel, not a statement of what kind of person you think you are as a result.
Profile: Harsvin
Harsvin on Aug 24, 2015
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Normal thoughts are thoughts which are temporary and has normal human emotions such as thoughts about happiness, sadness or just any other thoughts of our daily activities. While depressed thoughts are thoughts which lasts longer and makes a person feel stressed out and overwhelmed. Depressed thoughts makes a person to feel emotionally down such as thoughts about loss and dissappointment. However, normal thoughts are thoughts which don't really bothers a person or makes a person feel emotionally down or stressed out.
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Anonymous on Dec 12, 2017
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Imagine looking through a pair of clear lenses the world would appear clear or "normal". However someone with depression may view the world wearing dark sunglasses, making the world appear dark and dreary. So the main difference between normal and depressing thoughts is how you view things and it is your view that can interpret how you think.
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Calmriver18 on Apr 23, 2018
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Sadness is a normal human emotion. We’ve all experienced it and we all will again. Its usually triggered by a difficult, hurtful, challenging, or disappointing event, experience, or situation. In other words, we tend to feel sad about something. This also means that when that so called something changes, when our emotional hurt fades, when we’ve adjusted or gotten over the loss or disappointment, our sadness remits this is a normal process and thoughts between that time are considered normal human behavior. But depressed thoughts are much more diffrent. Depression is an abnormal emotional state, a mental illness that affects our thinking, emotions, perceptions, and behaviors in pervasive and chronic ways. When we’re depressed we feel sad about everything. Depression does not necessarily require a difficult event or situation, a loss, or a change of circumstance as a trigger. In fact, it often occurs in the absence of any such triggers. People’s lives on paper might be totally fine—they would even admit this is true—and yet they still feel horrible. I think after being in this state for so long its no wonder our depressed thoughts become our own separate world that seems never-ending. But rest assured there is a way out and your not alone in this mind battle!! 💖🌝
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KathyTheHealer on May 22, 2015
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When you feel happy, it's normal. WHen you don't feel happy, it's depressed. When you have plans for future, it's normal When you don't have anything, it's depressed. Very simple like that.
Profile: rhea752
rhea752 on Jul 14, 2015
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Depressed thoughts may be in either black or white terms. Such as i Failed my exam so i am a failure. A better way to think is by examining your thought and seeing if it is true. There are several facets. Such as I failed the exam but i did better than i did on the last test. I am making progress. Try not to think of yourself as abnormal but work towards different perspectives in thought.
Profile: littlesnowflake1
littlesnowflake1 on Jul 20, 2015
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The difference between normal thoughts and depressed thoughts is that you don't exactly have much interest.
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Anonymous on Aug 24, 2015
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Depressed thoughts are often mainly negative, while "normal thoughts" are generally a mix of both positive and negative.
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JosephPerks on Oct 26, 2015
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Forget the idea of having "normal" thoughts. Normal is a perception. Try to analyse your thoughts into positive or negatives. Then try and find the root of the negatives, why do you feel this way? Do you feel you should feel this way?
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WalkinDownRapperBlvd on Nov 10, 2015
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Normal thoughts are thoughts are about daily life without the bad coming to mind. You find good in almost all of them. Depression thoughts are where you think everything bad and think no one is there. It can cause you to freak out or over think and put you into a bad mood.
Profile: Rosealyn
Rosealyn on Nov 10, 2015
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Normal thought can be just as painful, frustrating, and unmotivated as when you are in a depressed state. Remember that depression is an ongoing series of thoughts. Normal thought has breaks in those times where you may be feeling down, or angry, or plain worthless. This doesn't mean that you can't be happy when dealing with depression- it just means it takes a bit more effort to overcome the resting emotions (depressive state) you may have.
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