How to make your parents listen to you?
Freebirdie
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Apr 28, 2016
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I know this sounds childish but I watched 'Brave' and I realised that everyone in this world wants to be listened. Sometimes it happens that the adults don't act like adults, so maybe you should. I treat people the way I want to be treated. Also, you're in control of yourself and not anyone else so if you wish to change something then the first destination should be you
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ukulelesounds
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Jan 23, 2016
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Try to find a good moment, maybe make dinner for them to start off the conversation knowing your parents are in a good mood. Try to think of your points before "showtime", prepare the arguements and the best way to express your point of view. Start the talk by either opening the conversation right away or maybe doing small talk that goes into the direction of what you want, especially If you feel stressed- in which case the quiet approach could elp you calm down. During the actual conversation, try to sound as respectful and mature as possible. Maybe start with "I want to talk about (topic) again because I feel like we communicated the wrong way/ because I feel like we should understand each other's points better". Don't be snappy, rude or something else, that's not mature and not mature won't get you far. Listen without interrupting them to avoid your parents speaking louder or even start yelling. If you can't get what you want, ask why, and ask to find a middle of your interests. Maybe your parents won't raise your pocket money without you doing a few more chores or improving some grades, or they won't extend your curfew without knowing who you're with and would like to meet your friends or know where you're going. And If you don't get what you want, act respectful, ask questions If you don't understand, and be an adult about it. If you throw a tantrum, it might even improve your parents' point.
RAOTHEHELPER
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Feb 20, 2016
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JUST try to convince them with right reason to support the cause and be polite and as much possible respectful
jaca
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Jan 30, 2016
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When you wanted your parents to listen to you, you should try to talk to them with utmost respect :)
grumpymama
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Feb 2, 2016
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The best time to make sure you are heard is when you are not overly emotional. Using what is called an "I" message helps out a lot in my opinion. It is where you state what is wrong, and how it makes you feel. You do not state blame, or offer a solution.
Anonymous
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Feb 3, 2016
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Try to talk to them at the time they are not busy, and they will listen to you when they are completely free
delicateShoulder44
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Feb 5, 2016
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What I try to do is approach them as if I'm an adult and they're adults. You have to approach them at their level. It's important to be prepared and present what you have to say in a way that they will understand. It may be hard for them to sympathize because you're a teenager, though, but they will listen.
Anonymous
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Feb 5, 2016
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When you want your parents to listen to you, you have to be calm and mature. Talk to them when they are not busy, schedule a time with them if you need to.
Anonymous
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Feb 9, 2016
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Be clear, honest, but articulate. You must express opinions with evidence, or informed points. Be civil and mature when conversing, and be sure to be confident.
Anonymous
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Feb 13, 2016
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Be honest with them and what you have to say! Let them know that you want them to listen to you!!!!!
Anonymous
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Feb 6, 2016
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Blunt honesty has a way of starting conversations. Using clear and concise terms that are honest. Maintain eye contact and use emotions when possible.
Anonymous
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Feb 11, 2016
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Simple! Listen to them and they will definitely listen to you! Also, they're the sweetest people so they'll listen something, if not everything!
Anonymous
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Feb 12, 2016
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You need to show them you are serious and they'll listen to you. Make sure you know what your saying and talking about
Anonymous
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Feb 13, 2016
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Parents are very hard headed. They want the best for you and sometimes don't consider your opinion because you are still young and they've lived through what you have before.
ListeningEar13
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Feb 13, 2016
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Start a line of communication with them. Express yourself in detail and listen to the feedback. You may not always get the answer you want.
Anonymous
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Feb 17, 2016
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Asking their attention. Give something that make them proud. Be your self. Talk to them and asking their permission first.
Anonymous
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Feb 17, 2016
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There isn't really a way to do this, but i would sit them down and say you need to talk. Have a serious talk with them. Tell them what you need to say
Anonymous
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Feb 17, 2016
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Ask them to sit down for five minutes just to talk. Make sure not to get mad if they say no, it all takes a little time.
Greatlistener87
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Feb 18, 2016
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Just sit them down and talk to them. Tell them to give you how many minutes you need and make it happen.
feelihipo
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Feb 21, 2016
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Be sincere and honest. Talk to them, explain how you feel. Contact a specialist if you must. Don't keep things inside.