I am a girl and I have feelings for girls. But I prefer having sex with boys. Does it exist?
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Updated: May 19, 2020
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It could be that you are sexually attracted to one gender and romantically to another, which would mean you are a homoromantic heterosexual. If you can be attracted sexually to more than one gender but you have a preference for one, though, that would mean you are bisexual but you simply have a preference: bisexuality doesn't have to be a 50-50 level of attraction. So maybe you are bi, and you prefer boys sexually while you tend to be more attracted to girls in terms of feelings. I know it may sound like a confusing situation to be in, but you're not the only one to experience this, and many people in the same situation were able to find their own balance and fulfill their needs!
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