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How is parenting different for gay and lesbian couples?

Profile: Spiderman93
Spiderman93 on Nov 20, 2014
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I dont believe there is a difference. Showing the child you love them and care for them is going to be the same whether you are a straight couple or gay/lesbian couple. Love is love and even though society may think its wrong, society doesnt know you and the love you will have for that child
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 9, 2014
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it is as different as you make it to be. they are no different,they are normal and so your parenting should not change. Well being more supportive and open can never hurt
Profile: kraft
kraft on Nov 28, 2014
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It is different because instead of the conventional mother and father, you have 2 fathers, or 2 mothers. People from an outside perspective may look at it as wrong, however pay no attention to them. Show your child they just as much love and support from the 2 of you as any other family, teach them that being different is okay, and those other people don't believe in difference and that is why they look down on your choices. If the world was all the same, it would be a very boring place, that is the beauty of it all the fact that we can choose our own paths and beliefs, we are our own people, and only we can make ourselves happy which radiates to those close to us to join in on our happiness. Hope this helps!
Profile: Tanya26
Tanya26 on Dec 4, 2014
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It's not any different than straight couples! Just because they're gay doesn't mean they don't know how to parent or co-parent. We all have parental instincts!
Profile: Lillyshelp
Lillyshelp on Dec 8, 2014
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You have to realize that in a regular relationship and marriage is woman and man, both have different roles. Man takes normally place as the head of the family, the hard working one and the strict one. Woman is more at home, cooking and celaning and normally woman is the one who knows everything about her children. That way her their kids go more often to their mother ask for her opinion or to tell her about a problem they have and then woman is usually the one who tells the more dominant one, the man, about the problem. In gay marriage, one of the pair tend to act more as the women. That way he thinks he is not the head here. In lesbian one women in the pair tend to act more manly and sometimes even mirror it on the physical side. But the fact is that even if a gay acts as woman or lesbian as a man, they can never fully stand in the place as in a normal family. On the other hand gay marriage and lesbian marriage tend to stay stronger for a longer time than normal relationship between woman and a man thanks to lower difference between the pair. My opinion is, that the difference between gay and lesbian couples isn't big, only , by my personal expierience, lesbian pair tend to be more dominant and act more "manly".
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 21, 2014
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i don't believe that there's a difference. both parents love their kids and that's all that matters. a family doesn't have to be composed of a mother and father. it can be a mama and mommy or papa and daddy. it's how you raise the child that makes the difference.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 28, 2014
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there is no different in parenting between gay, lesbian, straight, biracial, etc...couples. Parenting is parenting.
Profile: JoanMcWench721
JoanMcWench721 on Nov 9, 2015
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It's tough when you find yourself in a position where a son or daughter asks for the opposing sex which you are not. It happens at times but can be handled with patience & kindness,
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 18, 2016
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Its just about the mind set how parents look at the situation and how free minded they are and support them
Profile: TangledRivers
TangledRivers on Feb 22, 2016
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This is fairly simple. The answer is: It isn't. Why would you think their parenting experiences would differ just because of their genders?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 22, 2016
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Right now there's definitely a stigma against gay or lesbian parents; especially when it comes to whether or not they could "raise" a child since there's not a "father" or "mother" figure- where in reality they are just trying to enforce gender roles and heteronormativity. But for the parents themselves, they'll have to explain why they aren't like other parents and why some people are so negative to them, other than that there might not be much difference.
Profile: softUnicorns54
softUnicorns54 on Oct 4, 2016
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It's not at all, except if it was a gay couple instead of breast milk the child would get baby powder
Profile: Mhr96
Mhr96 on Dec 18, 2016
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There no difference between them. We all interiorise the pattern of relationships that we live. So if parents give love and be consistent to their children it doesn't matter what kind of couple that you are. If your children experience real love and respect , nobody won't see any difference.
Profile: endearingLion70
endearingLion70 on Jul 9, 2018
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Basically parenting is parenting and the same issues will arise except for specific question that has to do with sexuality and society.
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