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Im torn, I love my ex.. He might love me but we're a mess, and last time he really hurt me, now I'm dating a new guy, i like him, I could fall for him. But I love my ex and i dont know what to do?

Profile: ALAL2019
ALAL2019 on Jul 16, 2018
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Who hurt once will hurt again and again. Move on in your life. And try to forget about him and start new life
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 25, 2020
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It can be really hard when you're with someone new but still love your ex. It's important to remember that the person you're with now makes you really happy and your ex hurt you a lot. Your own mental health is incredibly important and you can see yourself falling for him. You can always try to get your ex out of your mind by removing his phone number and unfollowing him from all social media. And remember that in the past he has really hurt you and you've started a new chapter of your life with this new guy. Focus on what will make you happy.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 16, 2022
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Sometimes, we have to take a step back and look inside of ourselves. Being able to love yourself and knowing what you deserve in a relationship is important. I have had to look inside myself, learn my worth and what I deserve from a partner. If you can write down what you want and deserve, and then look at the list.... REALLY look at the list... you will see what is best. Sometimes, it may not be either one. Sometimes it is to just be alone, love yourself, and the person that is meant for you will come. Take the time to look at what really matters to you.
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