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AsILayCrying
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Loss of libido
Relationship Stress / by AsILayCrying
Last post
 March 30th, 2022
...See more Hi I'm cry. I've been in my relationship for almost 3 years and my libido is fracking dead, this seems to be a comman issue in all my relationships. I've noticed I start out hypersexual because I just feel like I HAVE to sleep with my partner or he'll leave me, cheat on me and etc. I'm now starting to question my sexual identity and if I'm really just ace. I've tried talking to my partner about this but he just makes a 'joke' saying I'll leave you or will just complain and pester me for freaking hours to do the do or a variant of and then when I complain he blames me for this because I was so hyper sexual. I didn't mean to be but unfortunately my past relationships never worked out because of this so I force myself into the deed when I don't don't enjoy it. It doesn't feel great I don't feel connected with my partner and when I tell him that he literally just hears the worst qualities and then says I'm just using him. I really don't know what to do I'm tired of my relationships putting an importance on the sexual aspect but not the relationship itself and is it really my fault since I started out like that? Help would be amazing.
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Relationship Stress / by AsILayCrying
Last post
 April 1st, 2022
...See more Call me Cry, I've been in my relationship for going on 3 years now. I feel like we're reaching a stalemate, both of us struggle with the same mental health issues and have a hard time communicating about it. Like neither one of us wants to burden the other, which helps neither. I'm not very close with my family and I don't have really anyone I'd consider a freind anymore, so I've been feeling extremely cut off socially. I've noticed a comman problem in my relationship that keeps popping up, my partner likes to blame our issues on me, issues that aren't even the real problem just so he can vent to his freinds. I'm fine with venting that's cool, I don't appreciate being lied about though and when I confront him on it he'll start crying and talking about how he's victimized himself and how he's sorry but that's after slightly freaking out and asking me what I do for him and accusing me of using him because I'm currently struggling with my sexual identity and my libido has died because of it. I really don't know what to do, I have no one to talk to and he just lies about things just so he can have someone to talk to, and it really fucking hurts and makes me not want to do anything for him. In the end I feel like he cares more about the lack of swxual relationship than our actual relationship dying. I don't want to leave but I also don't want to stay like this.
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LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by AsILayCrying
Last post
 April 2nd, 2022
...See more I'm asexual. I've never said that to anyone out of fear of being judged. My partner is not...I've hinted at the thought about myself and they just made a cruel joke now (I'll leave you. Then proceeded to tell me they where kidding but I have my doubts) I want to have a conversation with my partner about how I'm feeling towards my identity but for obvious reasons I'm scared. They are CONTANTLY bugging me for seggsy time and I just don't. It's starting to get to the point to where I feel bad (comments like oh Im unattractive, I'm not good enough, there's someone else) and I've tried to explain no its none of that I just don't want to. Not interested. I want an emotional and mental connection with my partner. I just don't know what or how to say it, so I just nervously laugh and keep switching subjects until I get angry and blow up about it but then I'm still the dick. I literally just wanna be accepted and to finally be able to say it but it's hard.
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Depression Support / by AsILayCrying
Last post
 April 10th, 2022
...See more I'm 28 and was diagnosed with depression and bipolar when I was a teen, I had a therapist but it was more my mom's therapist than mine. I feel pretty lonely as I don't talk to my family and I'm no longer close to my freinds. My boyfreind is supportive but has his own issues to deal with and I honestly feel like a bother when I talk about things. I'm hoping this will help connecting with other people who feel the same.
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