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Banjolilly1996
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PathStep 11 Compassion hearts183 Forum posts10 Forum upvotes24 Current upvotes24 Age GroupAdult Last activeJuly, 2024 Member sinceMarch 20, 2019
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Resentment
Family & Caregivers / by Banjolilly1996
Last post
 April 25th, 2023
...See more I feel bad but I’ve been feeling a lot of resentment towards my husband. He let his mother and brother stay in our house for 3 months and they ate our food, slept on our couch and hardly contributed. I was constantly made to feel like I was crazy for wanting my space and my husband never had the courage to kick them out. Not to mention I was in my third trimester of pregnancy. His family still continues to use him even now that they no longer live here. After having the baby, they made it all about them. Mother in law posted on *** photos of myself and my child before I even had the chance to speak to family. My brother in law slept in our bed while we were in the hospital and neither saw anything wrong with it
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Mooching in-laws
Family & Caregivers / by Banjolilly1996
Last post
 December 29th, 2022
...See more I’m currently 6 months pregnant, married and adopted a daughter in May. My husband’s mother has randomly decided to move in and my husband won’t tell her to leave. She is almost 50, has no job and always relied on others to take care of her. She uses my car, eats our food and doesn’t seem like she is looking or any other sort of employment. Sometimes she helps me with things around the house and watches our daughter but I want her out. I feel guilty for feeling this way and sometimes justify her living with us by saying “well she does help sometimes”. I’ve complained to my husband multiple times but he refuses to address it. She had a pretty rough past and is doing better but she may not be the best influence for my kids to be around.
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Lies
Relationship Stress / by Banjolilly1996
Last post
 July 31st, 2022
...See more I caught my husband in a huge lie and presented the evidence to him. It wasn’t cheating but it was still something that I considered pretty major. When I brought it up he became defensive and I feel crazy.
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