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Browneyedgirl26
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Fake girlfriend or real? I can't be sure.
Relationship Stress / by Browneyedgirl26
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 September 6th, 2016
...See more My bf just left after five years together, we broke up in June, We were about to buy a house and then he found out his job was at risk and his personality kind of switched on me. Suddenly he didn't have feelings for me anymore and pushed me away. He kept saying comments about wanting to be alone and just wanting to be away for work now and relying on himself.begged and did all that and got ignored.Went round there in the end and he was jaw dropped to see me.tried to give him space for a few weeks then reached out.Our main source of communication was Whatsapp due to my phone signal, but he hates apps and social media etc.Start of August, he has set a picture of some new girl as his whatsapp picture and ignoring me.It is a girl on her own and doesn't look his type at all. He is very quiet and she looks very social and doesn't look like she lives local. The photo looks like it's taken on an estate at flats and standing next to a box of cigarettes but he is very strongly ashmatic. I have no choice but to move on. Heartbroken. Many are saying the picture is likely to be fake so I react, it breaks my heart thinking of him with another woman. I reached out and got nothing. I don't get how he went from looking depressed etc to suddenly pulling a girl in the space of a month. There was pics in July put on their work fb page and he looked unshaven and like he let himself go. I can't get my head around the feeling it's fake. I just don't know what to do.
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When do you feel worse after....
Relationship Stress / by Browneyedgirl26
Last post
 August 6th, 2016
...See more At what point do you normally feel worse after a break up after the initial few days... 1 week ? 2 weeks? 3 weeks? A month? 2 months? I just wondered really.
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Ball is in his court... Can I save us?
Relationship Stress / by Browneyedgirl26
Last post
 July 13th, 2016
...See more My other half has been stressed recently due to various issues and he won't admit that but it's very obvious. He said he lost all feelings for me and won't speak to me, our five yard anniversary is in two weeks. I apologised for some harsh words I said as he was saying hurtful things and also said I am here if he wants to chat but I would leave him alone now. He kept saying he is better alone etc. So I am on day 12 of no contact and still heard nothing. Definately giving up. We was so strong and planning our future and looking at houses before all this. He basically had a job scare and switched on me. It's a shame he is completely blocking me out and willing to end it like this. I feel really lost constantly and confused how this even happened and got to this. Is no contact my best bet? I should probably note when all this first kicked off I was really trying and he just kept ignoring me. Same time though he is a very insecure guy and was very confused, I have no idea how he feels now though.
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5 years and now nothing. Please help!! :(
Relationship Stress / by Browneyedgirl26
Last post
 July 7th, 2016
...See more Well its been an ongoing thing really for a few weeks. We was looking at getting a mortgage and it was all good, we had our principal through and he seems to have been happy then.. He found out he might get made redundant from work and he kind of just switched on me, started saying he didn't know if he wanted to be with me and stuff.. Then he calmed down... then he got a job update again and said the same. So we kind of broke up on the phone. He ignored me for two weeks so I went round there, he didn't look like himself. He said he was really happy but he wouldn't look at me without getting upset and wouldn't go near me… He will be away for work a lot as the result of the redundancy was that someone went so his travel for work would increase even more… tried and tried and he just didn't want to know… He just kept saying he had no feelings for me and couldn't say he loved me back anymore but was hoping to snap out of it … felt like he jus couldn't be bothered and he was just starring out the window - was very odd behaviour…. I said before I left I wish I never met him - which I regreted. I emailed him on the Monday (13th) saying I didn't mean it and I would leave him alone now. He hasn't reached out at all… i am trying to give him space you see. That was over a week and a half ago now. Still nothing. Any thoughts?
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