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CarpeNoctem22
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Number of ratings355 Number of reviews213 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Croatian Listener sinceMar 11, 2015 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 483 People helped1,006 Chats3,820 Group support chats7 Listener group chats6 Forum posts17 Forum upvotes55
Bio

"If the highest aim of a captain were to preserve his ship, he would keep it in port forever."
St. Thomas Aquinas

"I asked my dog what's two minus two. He said nothing."
Wait wait wait, got another one. Why do they put fences around the cemetery? Because people are dying to get in. Eh, got a chuckle?

Anyways I'm Mateo, guy in his 20s that is experienced to talk about the issues that are listed below and is sorry for the bad dad jokes.
What to expect when talking with me? I will not judge, it will be your space to share anything you are comfortable to share.
I won't be a robot repeating some cliche phrases (It'll all be okay, you're gonna be fine etc.) without at least backing it up with good points. We'll talk through things, you don't have to be alone in it and I'll try my best together with you to assist you in finding the solutions to your issues.
Talking itself may not solve some issues, but it can be a big first step in solving them. 

NOTE: I will NOT talk with members that have suicidal thoughts or intentions. 




Recent forum posts
Long term listener needed?
General Support / by CarpeNoctem22
Last post
 June 6th, 2023
...See more Sometimes here we need more than a quick chat. Why? Well we may track our progress easier if we talk with someone more than once, someone with whom we already developed some connection. So, whoever wishes and needs, feel free to message me if you need a long term listener. See if my profil and the topics I usually talk about matches your needs.. If not, I'm sure there are other listeners here that would love to be a long term listener to you! :)
Small victories pile up sooner than you realize
Depression Support / by CarpeNoctem22
Last post
 February 3rd, 2023
...See more Does it seem like making your own bed feels like not a big deal? Exercising for 20-30 minutes a day also seems like not much? Cooking your favourite meal, watching a good movie, listening to some good music, being productive when it comes to studies or at work? Well all of that when taken individually seems like just one small victory. Include all of that at once or just a couple of it and it's a game changer. Totally different day. Depression hates changes and what can make it seem so powerful is that it likes for things to stay the same in our life. Let's break that fog step by step, having small victories, to remind our minds that we have much control in our hands. This is a thread made for you, to notice your progress and what you did new today to make yourself feel better. The bright side is, there are countless things out there that can help us deal with depression, we just need to find the right ones for us. I'll start by mentioning how playing darts everyday made me felt less anxious and. :)
Long term listener needed?
General Support / by CarpeNoctem22
Last post
 December 13th, 2022
...See more Sometimes here we need more than a quick chat. We need an online buddy with whom we already developed some connection. So, whoever wishes and needs, feel free to message me if you need a long term listener. See if my profil and the topics I usually talk about matches yours expectations. If not, I'm sure there are other listeners here that would love to be a long term listener to you! :)
Long term listener needed?
General Support / by CarpeNoctem22
Last post
 November 3rd, 2022
...See more If anyone is in need for a long term listener, feel free to text me up. We'll work it out, it'll be your safe space to be yourself where you're in the centre. You don't have to go through some things alone.
Battling self-destructiveness
Depression Support / by CarpeNoctem22
Last post
 January 16th, 2021
...See more Hello guys, I'm new here to this subcommunity so I'm not aware if I've started a thread that already exists so in advance I apologise if it does exist. What lots of people that aren't dealing with depression don't understand enough, or not even notice is the self-destructive behaviour that can appear to people battling with depression. Lots of people experienced the feelings of not wanting any good or help from outside nor reaching for it. They may felt unworthy of a good life and of receiving help. It may seem to them that they are unable to experience the "good" or it doesn't sound that attractive at all. They may let chaos take over their life in order that they won't care what happens to them and around them. What I would like for you is to share what helps you so that other members here may feel like they aren't alone in experiencing this.
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Feedback & Reviews
Thank you for listening to me
incredible person
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Very great listener and problem solver! Is very understanding as well.
thank you so much for your work , it’s heart touching
Patient and kind, Doesn't judge and has cool taste in film.
Genuinely a good listener, 11/10 def recommend
I liked it. Helped me manage my emotions
Smart and patient
He's a good person, knowledgeable and mature enough.
Thank you for listening and giving me helpful and compassionate insight!
You are amazing, thanks a lot!!!!!!!!!!
Wonderful listener, global point of view and compassionate feedback, thanks so much!
Thank you for listening and providing me and insight and perspective to my issue.. Cheers
Excellent listener. Really made me feel much better.
Great to talk with and helpful
@Ganimed is a very balanced Listener. Very reassuring, down-to-earth, and wise. He creates a safe space for you to open up, listens attentively to your story, and asks the right questions. Also, he's very compassionate and calm. Thank you for this refreshing chat! Jah Bless!
He was actually giving constructive advice while at the same time being compassionate and kind.
Really funny and wise to talk with, was there for me like a best friend would be.
He is a very good listener , Thank you so much .
A very kind and helpful listener
Nice person and wonderful listener
Great listener!
Talking to him is like catching up with an old friend! He is one of the best out there and he genuinely cares. You’ll laugh, you’ll smile and at the end of the conversation, you’ll feel like you matter.
Understanding and helpful
This listener is very good , Thank you Ganimed for helping me.
Super easy to talk to. Supportive, friendly and kind. Great listener !
Amazing listener! Helped a lot, very friendly and kind.
Amazing listener, very kind and friendly
He's an angel, so lovely!
Would recommend (:
Listened carefully.
One of the best listeners here.
Ganimed , is truly amazing he listened and gave me some help , i recommend him to all
Great listener and patient
Really nice and thoughtful
He is really nice and helpful.
Mateo was a nice guy to talk to was awesome chat i liked talking to him it was nice to get stuff off my mind a little and get motivated
Warm conversation, they listened to me like I'm just like them and made me feel like accepted and heard by them. Such a great listener.
Really good listener
so thoughtful and gives sm :,) thank u!
Thanks for the chat.
I felt I was talking with someone that has an IQ180+. Thank you so much!
This was my first chat EVER and Ganimed was AMAZING!
Great conversationalist and listener
He is very good person and listener
Good listener! Thank you so much for your time!
If you want someone who is into thinking broadly and have broad-problems. This is the person for you.
More than incredible listener! Kindly recommend!
Very smart and logical. He approached my issues from every possible way which made me felt really heard and helped me see all the sides of my problems.
Ganimed is a kind listener, who shares logical feedback and experience. He's helped me manage anxiety and clarify my thoughts
very good listener
Intelligent and amazingly friendly.
Absolutely fantastic. Quick replies, compassion, insight. Brilliant listener. Thank you Mateo.
He's a good heart
So grateful to have been connected with this listener. The wisest and most helpful listener ever. Made me feel so understood and comforted. My issue has overwhelmed me and his words helped immensely.
He's good at what he does
good listener, good words
He is a good listener.
Loved, loved loved this listener, amazing!
very nice person nice to talk to sweet and understanding he help me with my relationship and baby worries
Made me feel understood, listened to, didn't judge me, had personal experiences with the things that are bothering me... all of the things that really helped and made me feel accepted.
Awesome, Patient Listener.
A truly great listener! Probably one of the best I have had in the 7 years I have used this site. Thanks, Ganimed! :)
Very Coherent and understanding
Really empathetic listener. Appreciate the help and support.
Great listener and very fast at responding.
Amazing! Just magic. One piece of advice and I snap to reality.
Very good listener and good suggestions
Very understanding and very helpful, definitely recommend
The sweetest person.
It's been really nice. I love it.
A nice, helpful talk.
Great listener from the beginning! Has good input and makes one feel heard.
Very sweet and fun to talk to!
Very good listener pays attention and doesn't take long to reply which makes me feel listened to and understood
He was very kind and warm and I felt heard. Thank you. :)
Very sweet. Helped me alot. Made me believe in hope again. God bless you! Thankyou💛
Great listener!
Ganimed is a good person, he will treat you well.
amazingg listener
Ganimed was a very lovely listener. I felt quite heard and understood. He was very encouraging and present. Definitely recommend
He’s been super awesome, nice, kind, respectful and understanding
I enjoyed the chat so much. Just awesome listener!!
Very understanding and a great listener.
Recommend this listener to everyone, he listened to my problems, gave thoughtful responses and helped me find answers for my situation
Very helpful and seems compassionate
So caring and lovely. Highly recommend
Good listener so far
The most wonderful listener. Made me feel welcome.
Thank you for listening to me.
Had a wonderful talk with them
Mateo is a great listener and have very wise words
The best Listener Ever! So calming, honest and loving! I recommened you talk to him if you need help! I promise you he takes time to talk it out with you! Thank you so much for helping me!❤️
He's there with you 100% to help you as much as he can, like a true best friend would do.
Very comforting and assuring. Thank you..
ganimed always always fantastic person really all i can say ..god bless ur way and merry Christmas 🎉🎄🤗
This listener was so kind and understanding. Truely an incredible, selfless person.
Wise, smart, kind and lovely. I feel so much better after talking with Mateo.
Nice way of viewing things.Logical dealing methods
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