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CharmingHumanKidaa
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Jobs loves playing games with me
Work & Career / by CharmingHumanKidaa
Last post
 June 9th
...See more I don't know what to say when you thought you have the jobs, the next thing you're unemployed again. It hard to get a job, and these jobs I have applied, went on an interview, the next thing you have an orientation and something else goes wrong never failed. It either oh we change our mind we don't need you or froze your application. There is something not right. I don't have no background and it is really frustrating to gowa through it. I want to move to a different State but my fiance wants to keep his job, but he can't save his money I don't know what to do or should I leave him alone and move some state where I can get a job without problem to get a job. I have never been feeling like I'm homeless or I feel like a failure person always have and always will be.
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Stay silence
Relationship Stress / by CharmingHumanKidaa
Last post
 March 8th
...See more I told him that I just don’t like your female coworker and he still communicate with her. I don’t care if they aren’t flirting, it’s a reason why I don’t like her and he knows that. Maybe I am being insecure about her but she doesn’t me. I can’t keep my peace as long you’re contact outside of work ima stay silence cause I’m sick and tired to explain to you.
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Not accepting between him and his female co worker
Relationship Stress / by CharmingHumanKidaa
Last post
 March 3rd
...See more Hey guys, I’m trying to forget about the past messages between my fiancé and female co worker aka friend. I do understand of working together but why do you have to communicate with her outside of work? I’m not cool with them together. Just her newlywed husband is okay with it but not to me. I will never forget when she told him I’m single and she show him some pics wants to be a model. Now I’m engaged because she is married? It’s look strange to me he doesn’t want to stop being her friend. I want to accept it but I can’t I don’t trust her. It’s either her or me. I wish he could see that and he knows it. I don’t know why he’s won’t let me go.
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Mom gives me an anxiety
Anxiety Support / by CharmingHumanKidaa
Last post
 February 19th
...See more Hello, me watching my mother, I see her doing some weird things and I feel anxiety from it. For example is it normal for people cook in the kitchen without the light on? When she talks to herself like she's having a conversation with somebody and no one is there. I grew her do all kinds of weird things. I stay outside all day and night for a reason. I always afraid of what she would do next. My whole life I'm wondering what is wrong with her, and I never get the answer seriously, what does it mean?
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My relationship is over
Relationship Stress / by CharmingHumanKidaa
Last post
 February 16th
...See more I been with this guy almost 8 years and we're not getting nowhere. It's over now. My birthday is next week and our anniversary. I got 4 kids but 1 kid with him, and it's happens ....
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Spending birthday alone
Self-Esteem / by CharmingHumanKidaa
Last post
 February 18th
...See more Hi, Well my birthday is next week and I will be turning 36th year old. For the first time I will be spending alone on my birthday for reasons. I believe my almost 8 year relationship is over. Also would be 8th year anniversary on the same day but life happens. I have been feeling lowest self esteem for a long time. I ask myself why I don't think I'm pretty enough. I can look nice outside but inside I don't think I'm pretty I feel like I'm ugly and I call myself that everyday. I don't like my face, I wish I could lose baby weight, and some reason why I feel like my ex fiance doesn't love, he would always make fun of my face even though he's kidding. I am trying to think I'm not ugly but at the same time I wish my skin color be different too.
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Relationship x Problem
Relationship Stress / by CharmingHumanKidaa
Last post
 February 16th
...See more I been with this guy for almost 8 years. At first he was kind, loving, and laid back. Now, he has changed his body language is different. We not as close like we used too. Ever since he work at 3rd shift things change, he messaged to his female coworker a lot, she get all of his attention even though they are not flirting now she's married. I feel like she's gets more attention than me. At home he sleeps all day til 7pm then heading to work. We argue every day even yesterday (Valentine's Day). He doesn't think anything is wrong with us or himself and I told him I'm not okay with things going and of course he would ignoring me or don't agreed. It is hard to be in a relationship with person work 3rd shift. I used to work there but I was single. We have a family it's a lot for me at night. I need help real bad I'm at the point I'm starting to lose my mind and I am disabled now. I don't know what I can do about that.
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The 3rd shift ruins our relationship
Relationship Stress / by CharmingHumanKidaa
Last post
 February 17th
...See more I need help with my relationship, I talk to them how I feel of us being together and he work 3rd shift is affecting our relationship. He doesn't see it but I do. I used to work 3rd shift and it is hard. Even though, I was single at the time, but that's not okay with me and him the only time we're together when he sleeps and I am sitting here doing nothing all day. Especially, my body moves is different cause I got a joint pain. I can't move much but I do need help around. I guess I'm disabled now. Whenever I can get settle I think me and him 8never see 8th Anniversary next week and I think we should separate since he let his pride in the way. I guess I'm being selfish or something I don't know what to think....
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