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Cherry4
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PathStep 8 Compassion hearts832 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes10 Current upvotes10 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2026 Member sinceNovember 22, 2018
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Grief & Loss / by Cherry4
Last post
 June 28th, 2024
...See more My cat crossed the rainbow bridge today and I miss her so so so much already. This is the 7th loss I’ve had to experience in 2.5 years and I just feel really numb and alone right now. I’m happy she’s not in pain anymore, but I’m sad she was in pain and had to go.
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relapsed
Eating Disorder Support / by Cherry4
Last post
 June 2nd, 2024
...See more Here we are again. I feel like I constantly have an angel and a devil on my shoulders. I’m sick of feeling sick and want to recover but I also don’t. It’s a little mine boggling that I have been dealing with this for almost 12 years and I’m starting to lose hope in recovery. Sometimes I want to give up and give in, and right now is one of those times.
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Friendship Support / by Cherry4
Last post
 June 2nd, 2024
...See more Hi everyone! I could really use some support. Recently I had an issue with a friend and I was super proud of myself for starting to communicate how I felt. But I am struggling with really communicating how her actions effected me. For context: she invited me to a concert and bailed at the last minute and is not seeing anything wrong with that. She didn’t respond very well when I started to communicate how I felt about the situation, and she was defensive of her actions. I don’t want to invalidate whatever she could’ve been going through. But she seems more concerned about me not being mad at her when I just genuinely felt hurt. I stepped back a bit just to collect my thoughts because I was feeling overwhelmed, and to avoid a fight because things did feel a little heated and I needed some space. A couple of weeks have passed and she has been reaching out to make plans in a group chat with a few others. I want to join in on the fun but I just cannot shake how hurt and left behind I felt/still feel. I don’t want to just end the friendship and I can tell she doesn’t either but I can’t just act like nothing happened.
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no end in sight
Eating Disorder Support / by Cherry4
Last post
 November 3rd, 2023
...See more I have been dealing with restrictive eating for over a decade and it’s really hard to see myself ever getting better. I just can’t bring myself to get help even though it’s not sustainable.
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