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DaveTones
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PathStep 9 Compassion hearts21 Forum posts17 Forum upvotes11 Current upvotes11 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2026 Member sinceAugust 31, 2025
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Recently separated from my wife, she was the world and was absolutely my perfect partner.....really struggling with the break up 

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Divorce papers signed...
Relationship Stress / by DaveTones
Last post
 January 17th
...See more It was only a matter of time, but ...... ***! You know? ..... damn shame! .... I'm still in disbelief and hope is fading but will never die. Dreams latley have been a blessing and a curse. I just wanted to get something off my chest, may even go for a drive ..... I'm never gonna heal but I don't want to hurt.
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Slipping back
Relationship Stress / by DaveTones
Last post
 October 6th, 2025
...See more Past couple of weeks ive been slipping back to a horrific place! I dont want to .... ive been trying so hard!.....but after seeing her today my heart just gave up and ive broke down in public twice already. I'm so happy for her to be healing i am truly! But I can't shift the feeling of what if even though she found or will find someone new, she's too unbelievable to find someone great. I thought , still think we're perfect together before we put up walls , become stagnant or tolerated each other instead of being with each other ! ***! I was doing really well finding the guy I once was and not who I used to be......I know its too late but I can't let her go yet! And its kiling me
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Oops....I'm a bing bat!
Relationship Stress / by DaveTones
Last post
 October 6th, 2025
...See more Its been nearly 3 months since my (totally heartbreaking break up) And for the first time a said I was 'cute' today and I told her 'I'm not sorry....I'm married" latley I've been lonely af and having thoughts i probably shouldn't be having of me and my ex...im not a good looking guy, but I dont see anyone attractive anymore and living in hope (of being with my ex) is a different kind of pain! on top of the feelings I caused i still deal with I'm starting to get really angry with myself now too! DAMN IT !
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Better me?
Relationship Stress / by DaveTones
Last post
 September 26th, 2025
...See more Ever since our break up (I caused) 2 months ago and after therapy and meds ,I see clearly for the first time latley exactly what she did and ment to me more then whilst together....i may look better but hurt so much more because of that clearty, and guilty feelings are so of the chart ive been close to suicide many times (still do) Lately ive been seeing her more (thanks to our youngest inviting me for coffee) I see what ive done and know the pain ive caused making it hurt even more.....i want to help her so much ! Hold her so much more! And over whelmed with guilt and anger I just dont know what to do! I can only wear the smiley clown make up for so long ! I just ..... i dont know ....... i love her more than anything and destroying us / her has destroyed me ...... I dont know what to do ,I just needed to vent Sorry if I bothered you all x
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The keys
Relationship Stress / by DaveTones
Last post
 September 3rd, 2025
...See more Today i post my keys to the kingdom that I had too leave ..... and leave my princess for everyone else, head and heart are racing so much!
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The stress is unreal!
Relationship Stress / by DaveTones
Last post
 September 2nd, 2025
...See more i want to tell her everything about how i feel....but she doesn't want anything to do with me ! what do i dooooooo!! 🤮😭
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