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What's the point of saying no?
20 & Over / by Dobby777
Last post
 May 23rd
...See more So for a long time people never respected my boundaries. My little brother who is 11 made few sexual comments towards me which weirded me out. He promised me he would stop, but didn't. I know siblings tend to tease eachother, but my brother has absolutley zero respect for me. I feel like he only cares for me when i'm gone or when i do something nice for him. It may sound controversial, but i think i'm slowly getting more and more grossed out by my best friend. I never told or showed her that, but sometimes she says such not funny and sometimes rude things that i can't help but feel a huge ick. She barely respects my boundaries and makes sexual or SA jokes about me or my body. I told her no hundrets of times and she never cares. She is also fully aware of how sensitive that topic is for me. Again she doesn't care if i feel uncomfortable. Her words tend to hurt me sometimes. I don't know how to make them respect my boundaries, any advice?
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I need advice
35 & Over Community / by Dobby777
Last post
 May 19th
...See more Since i was a kid i often slapped myself or bit nails till they bleed. Now i have deeper issues, because summer's coming and i won't be able to cut anymore. And i already look like a tiger with those scars on my hips. But I am getting a bit better, exept those intrusive thoughts i have. In October my mom made me go to therapy. Only 1 session and nothing more. The therspist told me that i should use a boxing sack to hit it till my knuckles hurt. But i doubt it works since i'm not a fan of sports and i woukd most likely get bored or tired of it. So any tips on how can i replace sh for atleast this summer?
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I'm not sure if it's self-hate.
Self-Harm Recovery / by Dobby777
Last post
 June 3rd
...See more I only feel proud of myself whenever i succeed. But it's very short pride. I feel smart and cool for a little while. I love spotlight. But when i get SLIGHTEST criticism or even a mild joke about how i should feel ashamed i immedatly think that i won't success in anything at all and how much of a failure i am. It leads me to cutting myself. I have my hips covered in scars. I feel anxious about smallest mistakes and i cannot forget my mistakes that were already solved long time ago. I don't feel satisfction anymore. If i won't achieve wgat i want or get a grade i want i WILL punish myself. If i can't cut i slap or scold myself. I even added bathsalt on my wound to feel extra sated. Because light physical pain is way less troubling than lashing out or crying in public. Or worse venting in real life. Atleast i won't feel guilt or shame, because i hate arguing with my friends or family. I usually apologize first. I am very aware that people will judge me or jump into wrong conclusions, so i prefer hurting my skin and feel atleast a tiny bit less stressed.
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I have a problem yall.
Self-Harm Recovery / by Dobby777
Last post
 April 10th
...See more I think i enjoy cutting myself too much. The longest break i had was..2 months maybe? Well at first i cutted once or twice in a month. But now i did that 5 times in 2 weeks! Usually when i'm stressed or even calm i go to bathe and before bathing i sneak a sharp object with me. I became more dissapointed with results, that i started applying things like bath salt on a fresh wound just to make it more painful. Usually when i don't get the grade i wanted or when i'm dissapointed with myself. Sometimes when i hurt myself i could feel amazing. Not guilt, no saddness just small excitement and fear of being caught. And my thoughts get more and more violent towards myself..i'm getting concerned by how thrilled it makes me feel. Because i start to crave more. I promised my mom to stop, but she forgot about it..pretty quickly.
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Could this be COCSA? (it may be triggering)
Trauma Support / by Dobby777
Last post
 April 2nd
...See more So it's been months since i got very unpleasant memories from past. I cannot get rid of them and they make me exetremly worried and upset. When i was 6, my cousin who's just 4 months older than me, pressured me into a very gross and inaprioprate play. I said no multiple times, but since i'm a people pleaser, i unwillingly agreed. I hated every second of it and i knew it was wrong even back then. The weird part is that i haven't thought sbout it for years and now i get these memories daily. They make me very upset. But thankfully i managed to get more at ease around him during family meetings. Still because of this event i've gotten myself into bad coping mechanisms like self harm, intense emotions, hopelessness and touch aversion. It may sound weird, but i'm not mad at my cousin. I haven't told any family member, so i won't ruin his family relations. I do not blame him for what happenned back then. I hope i'm not being overdramatic, but i really need some advice on how to cope with it. It bothers me a lot.
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