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Gypsy4night
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Am I being I'm unreasonable?
Relationship Stress / by Gypsy4night
Last post
 April 26th, 2017
...See more .. Am I being unreasonable? am I over stepping bounds? The situation is a friend is dating my ex, who is still my friend. I had asked them to keep the heavy pda's away from me for awhile. .. as in no tonsillectomy.. I fully expected them to hug, lightly kiss, caress and tease eachother in front of me. I can't help my ex pulled away from her when he thoughtI was looking. she thinks every time I'm rolling eyes or a look of pain crosses my face it's caues I'm pissed at them. ( I've got some medical issues that causes me to have pain spikes.. which they are both aware of ) she told me I have caused nothing but stress and drama by asking them to keep the heavy pda, in front of me, at a minimum. . that they are both adults and. have etiquette to know how to act in public... I want to laugh at that.. since that tonsillectomy they had was in a parking lot of my family place.. im thinking about asking them both to a meeting. on neutral territory such as a Park away from other people.. to clear the air sort of ... im wonder if that is a good idea or not
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I want to call her out on her bs
Relationship Stress / by Gypsy4night
Last post
 May 5th, 2017
...See more calling my so called friend out on her bs. I understand she is in a new relationship. with my best friend, who happens to be my ex boyfriend. She tells me she does not want to come between my friend and me. him and I use to hang out after work some nights just watching TV and movies. sometimes on our nights off we head to the movies. . ( exactly the same as before we were dating, exactly the same as when we're dating). Oh we like to play fighting games too. my ex is afraid to loose me as a friend... since he is trying to be kind to me. I know it will bother me for some time. Knowing I wasn't enough for him as a girlfriend. I know our relationship has to Change. I only ask one thing from them.. don't do a tonsillectomy on each other in front of me.. I completely expect them to hug, kiss, be playful with each other in front of me.. yeah it will hurt me for some time.. he has been my only boyfriend. ..ever. and I don't meet people easily. ... well she has come in between my friend and me. plans we had, during a time where she wouldn't be available, have been cancelled caues it bothers her me spending time with him. plans that were in place, BEFORE I introduced them. I get she has a set DAY schedule. . and his and mine are more screwed up (we work retail). I understand they some of the times him and I would meet up would go by the way side.. They need time together to find out if this thing they have works. what I do not fully understand is why, when it's a time she wouldn't be able to join us, the plans have to be cancelled. why does she have to tell me about a 5 hour make out session. why does she claim I'm like a sister to her and then hurt me with stories of what they have done together. they have done alot more them me and he did .. (im physically not able to go do a lot of things.. and he knew that when we started dating ) why would she ask me to come over to hand out then spend most of the time on the phone with him (she demanded calls, no texting ) laughing having a good time... ​​​ .
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Poison. ...
Journals & Diaries / by Gypsy4night
Last post
 May 30th, 2017
...See more do you ever feel like poison to those around you? i do. maybe I still have feeling of more then friendship to my ex... maybe I dont. he tells me he see me as more of a best friend. and we are still friends. he is now together with one of my other friends. and I feel like I'm poison to their budding relationship... the are both afraid to hurt me.and why I do appreciate it... I've told them both not to worry it I'm not hurt caues they are both together... I'd be more hurt if I caues the break up before they truly find out if they are ment to be. I hurt caues it took me 35 years to find someone in the first place (he has been my only boyfriend). . im hurt caues I'd like someone to hold me, kiss me, and make me forget my stupidity.. from stuff she tells me she has fallen for him. and yet she could walk away at anytine. I don't want them to be hurt either but I think I'm poison
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do you make plans?
General Support / by Gypsy4night
Last post
 May 27th, 2017
...See more Do you make plans? do your plan happen most of the time? I don't.. i was asked why don't I make plans most of the time. I'm tired of my plans almost always having to change for others. even if it's nothing more then housework on my days off, I get told to go to the parents running around while they are at work. then get b*tched for not getting the house work done. my last big vacation... one where I was leaving the state.. made months ahead of time.. I had my tickets, hotel room, ect.. I wasn't sure I'd be able to go until 3 hours before I was to leave.
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hello
Relationship Stress / by Gypsy4night
Last post
 April 1st, 2017
...See more hello. I was searching for a place to be.. i really don't know what to put here..
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