Take control of your life

Most priceless things for any human being are freedom, life, love, self time to rejuvenate ourselves....one should not compromise over these 4 things....LIFE one can only live the life through ups and downs taking her life as her responsibility completly....through which one can feel alive but not dead....LOVE one can only love others purely and wholeheartedly when she can love herself completly...now the question comes when a person can love herself completly....when she knows her value, her worth and accept herself completely....so those who are dependent over their spouses or boyfriends financially nd emotionally cant love him but only can feel debt over him , so she has to listen a to z ordered by her spouse...it is not love, it is an employee following commands of her boss...which is indirect form of slavery and slaves dont have heart..they are more or less robots or machines...and only material needs are obtained by giving physical needs and emotional needs by bearing their frustration, emotions over us...look if they are emotionally and phyaically available...there comes the answer whether it is love or bossism....due to which she cant love herself or anyone , its like being a puppet......if she love herself more than enough even our bf or spouse leave us we dont get that much affected...so give slightly more time to love youself than your spouse in a day so you wont feel betrayed if some unfortunate happens in future....FREEDOM Freedom means doing what ever we want, and no one should have the right to steal our freedom....getting such type of freedom you must work like do or die for your career or any kind of passionate work, improve skills enormously like i can get employed anywhere i go to any city...that kind of confidence is required.....when can we attain such state....only by being independent financially , emotionally and no one should steal our time , because our time is ours not theirs...less people less time so we can give our time less to others...we must be able to cut some people in our lives if we dont like them, so dont think that what if we may need him/her later? For that many mediators, mentors and family members are there and monetory exchange is required , so if you dont get peace cut them instantly....so one must fight for LOVE, LIFE, FREEDOM,SELF TIME TO REJUVENATE at any cost till last breath...better to be independent with little income than being under the shelter of millionaire and being in the cage with restrictions...such life is never fulfilled....never ever compromise over the above three things...any person at any time can start from scratch and get whatever we want....never lose HOPE...