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Lilith7666
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Is it me?
Relationship Stress / by Lilith7666
Last post
 March 1st, 2023
...See more Hey everyone, So I’ve previously ended things with an on/off bf of 3 years may 2022. I’ve started dating this beautiful man in November. It’s been great, wonderful even. But tbh I’m terrified. I’m beginning to love him, not beginning I should say I love him. We have great chemistry and he talks about marriage too. But I feel like I ruin good things like something can be too good to be true. I haven’t told him I love him for many reasons. Mostly because I don’t want to scare him off and I don’t like being vulnerable. I don’t understand why I’m scared to let loose. I actually want this to work.
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I’m scared
Relationship Stress / by Lilith7666
Last post
 October 3rd, 2022
...See more So long story short I ended a long term relationship a few months ago and I won’t lie I’ve been on a few dating apps but I wanted nothing serious cause I felt like I had nothing to give. So I met this one guy who was also in the same position I was but we bonded quick.. we’ve been hanging out a lot and while we both said we want nothing serious I really do think I’m starting to really like him. My friends say he probably is thinking the same thing but I can’t or won’t rush because that was a problem with my last relationship… I really do like him but I’m so conflicted because I can’t ruin like I don’t want to allow myself to ruin something potentially good.
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I ruined a good relationship
Relationship Stress / by Lilith7666
Last post
 July 14th, 2022
...See more I was in a friends with benefits type relationship with a friend from college and it’s was going great but I tend to get defensive and overact sometimes (I guess it’s trauma from past relationships I don’t know) but he always assured me it was ok…. So we have a couple arguments and the most recent one was him canceling on me last minute again. He had a history of doing this at this point. He initiated the date and everything and canceled saying work tired him out again. Now I understand work is work but he always tries to hang after work when he knows he’s tired…. I kinda blacked out and basically texted him “stop scheduling stuff after work if your tired it’s starting to piss me off” and later I apologized but it’s been a week and nothing yet but he’s posting on social media. We did like each other and we were working towards a relationship but it feels like he finally got tired of me and I feel like crap and it’s my fault.
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I don’t know how to be happy
Relationship Stress / by Lilith7666
Last post
 June 22nd, 2022
...See more I broke up with my on/off boyfriend of three years officially about a month ago… I loved him but soooo many things played a part of us breaking up. It was to the point where I was basically a therapist/mother to him cause his family sheltered him to the point of no return (he barely did anything for himself) and it made me resent him a bit. Which cause some issues for myself…. I didn’t want to leave because I thought I was the only thing keeping him together (that’s how bad it was) During the times we were off I hung out with a friend from from college and I regretfully began to have some feelings for him. I wanted to officially end it with my guy cause I didn’t think it was fair and we agreed as we thought it would give it time to work on ourselves (we’re still friends) but I get the feeling that the other guy likes me and even if I wanted to date again (not anytime soon) I feel so hopeless like I don’t know if we’ll even be a good match or if I’m even good enough. I still cry sometimes cause I feel like I failed and ruined my last relationship. I don’t know how to handle a relationship anymore especially because I don’t to burden anyone with my issues either… I feel like it’s best to be alone so I don’t hurt anyone again.
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