I’m scared

So long story short I ended a long term relationship a few months ago and I won’t lie I’ve been on a few dating apps but I wanted nothing serious cause I felt like I had nothing to give. So I met this one guy who was also in the same position I was but we bonded quick.. we’ve been hanging out a lot and while we both said we want nothing serious I really do think I’m starting to really like him. My friends say he probably is thinking the same thing but I can’t or won’t rush because that was a problem with my last relationship… I really do like him but I’m so conflicted because I can’t ruin like I don’t want to allow myself to ruin something potentially good.