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Nonameneccesary
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PathStep 11 Compassion hearts64 Forum posts17 Forum upvotes23 Current upvotes23 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2023 Member sinceDecember 3, 2019
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Self love and self image
Depression Support / by Nonameneccesary
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 September 30th, 2022
...See more I've never really been good at the whole self love thing. I've been trying to be better. More accepting of myself. But it's really hard. Everyday I wake up and I despise what I see in the mirror. I hate being me. I hate how I look. I hate how I act. I just don't know how to change my thinking on that. I'm really trying to be better. I want to look at positives about myself but I can't find any.
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Is it possible for someone to love me?
Depression Support / by Nonameneccesary
Last post
 September 19th, 2022
...See more Was hanging out with a friend today and they brought along there significant other. I just noticed how happy they are. The way they look at each other. The way they laugh. And I think I realized that. I'm never going to feel that. I have nothing in me as a person that could make someone feel that way. And it's been eating at me. It sucks.
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Inexperience in dating
Relationship Stress / by Nonameneccesary
Last post
 September 28th, 2022
...See more Look. This is a little embarrassing. I'm 22 years old. And I have virtually 0 dating experience. I've been in 2 relationships in my life and they were both super short awkward flings in high school. And both those times they had to make the first move on me. And then covid nuked my dating life in my 20s because I live with compromised parents and I wouldn't put them at risk. Now I'm a young adult and I have no idea what I'm doing. I feel scared because I don't know even basic stuff like when to make moves with someone. I feel like me being so new to everything is just gonna scare people my age off. Has anyone gone through anything similar? How did you figure things out?
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Self confidence
Relationship Stress / by Nonameneccesary
Last post
 July 20th, 2022
...See more I've been single for a while. It's not for a lack of trying. I've gone out a lot. Gone through countless talking stages. And I've had a lot girls tell me they were into me at the time we were talking and that they just thought I wasn't interested in them because I wouldn't make a move on them. I've never been able to make the first move or any real big romantic move on someone. I let my nerves get to me. And I've lost out on a lot of really good people because of it. I just don't know how people do it. I mean. How do you know that the person actually likes you? I'm just scared I'll miss read something and ruin everything. I mean. I'm a big not really that attractive guy. I don't wanna creep people out.
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Self confidence
Relationship Stress / by Nonameneccesary
Last post
 July 20th, 2022
...See more I've never really been confident in myself. I've never really liked how I look or who I am as a person. And it's ruined a lot or relationships I've had. I've had plenty of people I wanted to be with ask me why I never really made a move on them. And I think it's just that I don't believe anyone could think of me that way. I just don't know how to get past that feeling about myself.
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