Self confidence
I've never really been confident in myself. I've never really liked how I look or who I am as a person. And it's ruined a lot or relationships I've had. I've had plenty of people I wanted to be with ask me why I never really made a move on them. And I think it's just that I don't believe anyone could think of me that way. I just don't know how to get past that feeling about myself.
@Nonameneccesary The one thing I learned about confidence is that it doesn't come from external gratification, it comes from the inner you. You have the ability to change it more than anyone else. People can't build the confidence for you. You have to do it yourself. And it starts with a little at a time. Perhaps step out of the comfort zone one time, and tiptoe into the scary water even if it lands in embarrassment, resentment, guilt, etc. Facing your fears is the strongest thing anyone can do.