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Saly9italy
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PathStep 4 Compassion hearts134 Forum posts47 Forum upvotes78 Current upvotes78 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2025 Member sinceJanuary 16, 2025
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My pleasures are drawing, raising cats, farming, knitting, embroidery, writing stories and thoughts, traveling, and getting to know different nationalities... 

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I would like to overcome lack of initiative, procrastination, lack of interest in my abilities and skills, laziness, loneliness, and ignorance of how to make money

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I need advice.., and I'll take it 👍🏻
General Support / by Saly9italy
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 June 23rd, 2025
...See more Hello, friends... 🖐🥰 I have a problem with distraction and procrastination. I've tried numerous exercises and methods, read books, and forced myself to do things, but I haven't succeeded because I'm frustrated and bored. I know the seriousness of the situation, but I'm not interested. What do you think I should do to regain my passion and energy for life?  🌷🌷🌷
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What should I do if I lose...?!??
Grief & Loss / by Saly9italy
Last post
 June 10th, 2025
...See more When a person is buried, they say that he has died, but they do not know that there are many dead people among us who eat, drink, talk, and have mobile phones, but they are dead inside... Losing loved ones makes the shock silent and calm, destroying our cells deep within, and what I am going through has made me lose the desire to express my grief. I used to draw, write, cry, or talk to a friend, but now I do not want to do anything except open YouTube and flip through hundreds of videos without benefit from them, sometimes tarot, sometimes horoscopes, energy science, and various news, although I am aware of the difficulty of what is happening to me... I do not want to talk to my brothers or neighbors, and I do not have friends. Sometimes I feel that my awareness has become higher than them, but when I see reality, I realize that I am not in life... My dreams and ambitions are big, beautiful, sophisticated, and many, but they are imprisoned inside me. I do not know how to work on them... Every day I talk to ChatGPT, and perhaps he will commit suicide because of me. I ask him for solutions, but I do nothing... Sometimes I play a song and remember how my life was and the beauty of our home, and I try to cry But I can't... I know that whoever reads my words will leave my topic and no one will care about the condition I am going through... And I don't know why I am writing? And how can you help me?? Since morning I have been thinking about who to talk to and that I need to talk but I did not remember anyone except 7 cups... What should I do if I lost the feeling of things? And I no longer want anything??? Will a day come when I will write the opposite of these words?
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Between my happiness and my sadness... ((only one thing))
General Support / by Saly9italy
Last post
 February 18th, 2025
...See more Hello all friends... 🌷 I want to raise my problem that causes me anxiety and panic... Perhaps I will find in your words and thoughts a solution, idea, or inspiration that will lead me to the desired result. I am a woman who lives a life that does not resemble me. Six years ago I lost my father as if I had lost a part of my heart. A year after his death, I met a man in whom I found everything I love... He supported me in all life situations. Days passed and a problem occurred that separated us from each other. Five years passed and I did not forget him. A year ago my mother died and then I was involved in an accident that made me lose my job and my friends and I became an introvert who could not deal with people. After the accident, several months later, I met the love of my heart by chance on social networking sites... I discovered that he had married and divorced and was very happy with my appearance in his life again...but I did not know how to be happy and how to meet him? What should I tell him? Every time he asks me to meet him, I use many things as an excuse. I don’t know how I will meet him even though my appearance has changed..?! I can't stand him seeing me with kindness, and I don't want him to lose it again, and I will leave my sister after her marriage soon... I suffer day and night from this issue, I can't sleep anymore... Time is wasting in my hands and I have not found a solution... My happiness is in front of me but I cannot reach it.
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