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ShadowMilkCookie
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how to take accountability and better myself?
Motivation & Accountability / by ShadowMilkCookie
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 April 1st, 2025
...See more I've been told that I can give off really toxic and sometimes even manipulative vibes and say hurtful things, and rI eally don't want to hurt people around me. How can I take the first steps to change
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any metal fans?
Music & Dance / by ShadowMilkCookie
Last post
 May 24th, 2025
...See more Any subgenres are okay! I personally like doom metal, industrial metal and nu metal. Though I donw't anna be the type to hate on any other subgenres! I just dont listen to them much :) I listen to: Candlemass, Rammstein [current favourite], Babymetal, Slipknot, Korn, System of a down And more that I can't think of :)
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feeling unloved and not listened to
Relationship Stress / by ShadowMilkCookie
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 April 1st, 2025
...See more For the past month or two now my relationship has been steadily going down hill and I don't know what to do anymore We're arguing almost daily and it's over such small things that we could easily fix if we just talked it out, and it hurts. A lot. I understand that no one is perfect, including me and I understand I've done some hurtful things to my partner and I really want to know how to get better but it just feels like he expects me to ASAP, like I have no time to even try get better. And everytime I go back to how I was before he seems to get so upset about it. And today is honestly close to my breaking point, we mentioned trying movie nights together more to see if that would help us get better and it went really well for a while, until he started talking about a movie he really enjoyed which isn't an issue but today I was feeling pretty sensitive from our argument we already had prior. I said some things sI houldn't have and I understand it was hurtful so I offered to watch it while he went out, except I also kept saying I didn't feel too good and asked if he could compliment me, to which he completely ignored and kept talking about the movie and how amazing it is which really upset me So I asked again, and all he said was "okay fine you're amazing, will you watch it now" IT HURT. SO BAD and frankly I'm pretty upset about it and he kept talking to me like I was being dramatic about being upset about it which made me feel even more stressed out because I explained I wasn't feeling loved and just wanted support. What do I do, he's out right now and I feel so scared for him to come back
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