how to take accountability and better myself?
I've been told that I can give off really toxic and sometimes even manipulative vibes and say hurtful things, and rI eally don't want to hurt people around me.
How can I take the first steps to change
@ShadowMilkCookie
First, I think, you might observe your reactions in various situations, to check if you really behave in a toxic or manipulative way (and it means going into more details).
Are you a person who is rather harsh to yourself, or - the opposite - you tend to justify your actions even if you feel they're not giving the best outcome?
Do you tend to feel guilty when something in your behaviour goes out of control, or are you feeling open to discuss it (not necessarily with your partner yet) and look for alternatives?
@ShadowMilkCookie that must have been hard to hear🙁 sorry sweetie 🙁 sometimes our personalities can be to much for people to handle at no fault of your own💖 first I think you just gotta work out your mistakes then own them, apologies can go a long way💖 but make sure your being kind to yourself 💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗
