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Sunshine927
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Not sure how to move forward
Relationship Stress / by Sunshine927
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 December 24th, 2025
...See more Last year my husband of 29yrs decided to start liking, following and talking to other women online. I thought we were working through it but last month I came across the messages between him and 2 of the women. He was discussing meeting up for possible sex. He holds steady of not remembering these messages or these women. He is in therapy to work on himself and he wants to work on our marriage. BUT...I dont know how I can deal with him messaging the other women, saying the things he did to them and looking to have sex with them. He said he never did anything physical but all of the above cuts deep!! But if he "cant remember" the messaging how can I be sure he never physically cheated??? This time frame was at this time last year and looked to have went on for 6plus weeks. How do I move forward from this betrayal? Im not sure if i can ever be intimate with him again not knowing what he was doing before and if he would be thinking of other women or me.
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Advice needed
Relationship Stress / by Sunshine927
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 November 6th, 2025
...See more Earlier this year I caught my husband looking, liking pictures and chatting with women online. I confronted him and he denied alot of it and then said it was nothing. He stopped for awhile and recently I noticed his social media was alot of younger women. I feel this is disrespectful to me and our relationship. Am I wrong to feel this way? And since this is repeating again should I really think of walking away?
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Broken trust
Relationship Stress / by Sunshine927
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 February 25th, 2025
...See more A couple months ago I caught my husband of 20+ years taking with someone online. When i asked him about it he said it didn't mean anything it was just conversation (but doesn't remember what they talked about) and then found out he was talking to 3 different people. He says he loves me and doesn't know why he stated looking or taking to others online. But every little thing he does a question and makes me think he's up to no good. I love him but I don't know how to move forward.
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Hurt and confused
Relationship Stress / by Sunshine927
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 January 12th, 2025
...See more My husband and I have been together for a long time and recently I thought he seemed strange. He started keeping his phone with him all the time and when it was sitting next to him it would be face down. I had a strange feeling so a couple of weeks ago I was able to look at his phone and I saw he had a chat with a girl I didn't know. I asked about it and he said it was nothing she messaged him so he responded. It seemed innocent but I still didn't feel like that was it. So I pushed a bit more, only to find out that he was chatting with 3 women. I was blindsided as I thought we had a good relationship. He said he liked some pictures on social media and then the girls messaged him and he was talking with them for a couple of weeks on and off. But he can't remember what the talked about or what they looked like but....convenient amnesia??? I feel this is cheating, am I wrong to think this way?? He has always been flirtatious with women even right in front of me and I would voice my opinion and he would stop for awhile. A couple of years ago an old girl friend found him on social media and they were talking....I thought it was ok only she said she missed him and he didn't dismissed her until I lost my mind and said to stop talking to her and he did. But now this talking w random girls and liking random pictures. I feel like he is choosing other women over me, his wife. Am I over reacting?
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