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Tim062
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts45 Forum posts27 Forum upvotes13 Current upvotes13 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2020 Member sinceJune 26, 2019
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Love being outside, fishing, motorcycles, gardening, hiking, sitting at waters edge, sports, primarily baseball and football, but anything competitive is good.

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Am I broken in all this?
Relationship Stress / by Tim062
Last post
 July 22nd, 2019
...See more Wife and I have been having some issues lately. Together 12 years. She ahs said recently she has thought of divorce and never brought it up, she feels hollow around me and shes just not happy and doesnt see us together for the rest of our lives.. She cant place anything wrong though, which is frustrating. She says she loves me, she wants to work it out, and I want to believe her because I love her so much and would do anything for us to. But theres a nagging I cant shake, that if she is feeling this way when life is easy right now (outside of the emotioanl aspect of us, I mean money, jobs, etc.), what happens if we hit a hard patch? HAs anyone gone through this? Tips to stay positive? Other that the constant just be happy, look for good, meme quotes my friends tell me? Or am I broken in this relationship too?
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Are things Trending Down?
Relationship Stress / by Tim062
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 July 7th, 2019
...See more Been having issues with wife together 12, married 6. We talk, as long as I bring it up, but everything just feels like its going the wrong way. Everytime I think Ok in the next convo as long as she doesnt say "this" we will be ok. Then poof. Thats what she says. Counseling is scheduled but even that makes me nervous now. She had two friend our age go through counseling. One finished and promptly divorced. The other reconciled. But last night that friend called and said they were done and he was asking for divorce. It just feels like she has that seed planted and everything is feeding into her deciding shes done. I'm so depressed and stressed. Just feels like I have no influence in this outcome. Just waiting for her to decide.
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Marriage Issue Stall
Relationship Stress / by Tim062
Last post
 August 9th, 2019
...See more Together 12 years, married 6 .Its been two months of vocalized issues, and all our talks and all our friends discussions and she still has the exact same answers as two months ago. Her feelings changed, she doesnt see us togther forever, but she loves me and theres nothing more I can do, Im perfect but (again) shes just not happy. The only time she talks about it is when I press. Otherwise she seems conent not talking about it. But if its been happening for so long for her I am scared. I need some progress, this is killing me mentally. It was out of the blue for me. And nothing seems to change. As she put it yesterday its a stalemate on how she feels. I dont know what to think. I believe she does want to know whats wrong but that doesnt mean/feel like its she needs to know soon.
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