Are things Trending Down?

Been having issues with wife together 12, married 6. We talk, as long as I bring it up, but everything just feels like its going the wrong way. Everytime I think Ok in the next convo as long as she doesnt say "this" we will be ok. Then poof. Thats what she says.

Counseling is scheduled but even that makes me nervous now. She had two friend our age go through counseling. One finished and promptly divorced. The other reconciled. But last night that friend called and said they were done and he was asking for divorce.

It just feels like she has that seed planted and everything is feeding into her deciding shes done.

I'm so depressed and stressed. Just feels like I have no influence in this outcome. Just waiting for her to decide.