Marriage Issue Stall
Together 12 years, married 6 .Its been two months of vocalized issues, and all our talks and all our friends discussions and she still has the exact same answers as two months ago. Her feelings changed, she doesnt see us togther forever, but she loves me and theres nothing more I can do, Im perfect but (again) shes just not happy. The only time she talks about it is when I press. Otherwise she seems conent not talking about it. But if its been happening for so long for her I am scared.
I need some progress, this is killing me mentally. It was out of the blue for me. And nothing seems to change. As she put it yesterday its a stalemate on how she feels.
I dont know what to think. I believe she does want to know whats wrong but that doesnt mean/feel like its she needs to know soon.
@Tim062
Hai Tim, Welcome to Relationship Support Space! I am glad you reached out and shared your thoughts with us. I am sorry for the delay in response. I hope you find this a bit helpful.
I am sorry to hear about how things going in your marriage. Seems like quite a rough time.
I guess relationship keeps going on with ups and downs. You both are together for 12 good years that means you both value this relationship and each other. It is more like another challenge for you both and you can deal with this.
How about communicating it again with her and probably manage some time for each other only and try some activities together to give a new experience to your relationship to keep it lively. Like a weekly dinner without kids or a time together cooking or discussing each other as a partner maybe some of your options to think about?
We all are here with you to listen and support. I hope things get better in your relationship.
Also probably you could take a minute or two to help and support someone here with your response and thoughts. Your thoughts can help and make a difference in someone's life.
I look forward to hearing from you!
