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I don't know how to control myself. He hurt me
Relationship Stress / by affectionateCoconut1306
Last post
 August 18th, 2024
...See more Soooo here's my situation. First thing first I struggle from severe anxiety. I had a fight with my boyfriend yesterday and I can't control my emotions or stop overthinking about everything. We've been together for almost 3 years now. The problem is, I stayed with my boyfriend in his house for a whole week, and it was a little bit boring. I tried to suggest activities and tried to have a good day and everything. But he was always, especially in the morning, not in the mood to do anything and sometimes, he didn't even talk to me that much or kiss and hug me. I always asked myself if he feels bored with me but I tried not to overthink and just go on with the day. Until one day, his two friends came to stay with him, and he completely changed, he woke up in the morning reaaally excited, singing, playing music and he never did that with me for the whole week. When I adressed that yesterday he got really upset and tolf me to shut f up (which he never said that to me), and told.me that I always try to ruin the day when everything is okay and kept on screaming and said that he regrets everything. And this hurt me a lot, he did apologized and said that what I was thinking is not true but we didn't communicate enough and now I don't know how to behave with him. I just want to control my emotions and my anxiety cause they are draining me.
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Attachment anxiety
Relationship Stress / by affectionateCoconut1306
Last post
 August 19th, 2022
...See more My mind is drained from overthinking. I'm in a relationship with this guy for 8 months now, we love each other but I still keep overthinking everything and I'm getting attached more and more. I'm also getting super jealous when he get out with his friends without telling me, or when he doesn't respond to my texts. I feel like I'm getting crazy. I think about him 24/7 even sometimes when everything is fine I always find something to overthink and it brings problems. I try to keep myself busy but I always come back to my habits.
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Back to my exe's friend.... HEELP!!
Relationship Stress / by affectionateCoconut1306
Last post
 September 20th, 2021
...See more I know that I need to stop this I just want someone to give me some advices. 😩 So this is my exe's friend. We kept talking a lot right after breaking up with my ex. We texted and called everyday and we had a really great connexion. One day he asked me out to talk about me and him and he told me that he wanted to be in a relationship with me, and how he really wanted to develop feelings but he only needed to deal with his ex girlfriend cause they were back talking again and he told me not to worry about it and he will make sure I feel emotionally safe with him bla bla bla..... So I was a little bit hesitated in the beginning but I agreed. Until, 2 days later, he told me that his ex girl wants him back and exclusive, and he was confused and didn't know what to do. That was so disappointing, cause he was stringing me along with him when he knew exactly what he wanted. Yes he got back to her and we stopped talking for a month and a half. But now we're back talking , he broke up again with his ex. I met him , we kissed and all, but he's still distant with me. He still didn't text me or call me. I know that this is wrong and I want to stop all this I just really want some advices to get my head straight. Thank you ❤
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