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amicableCup5891
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i wish I could undo everything
Relationship Stress / by amicableCup5891
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September 1st
...See more I ruined everything I dated a girl for a bit more than a year. We broke up a little bit more than an year ago. Not on good terms. I thought I finally moved on about 8 months after the breakup and started dating this girl. From nowhere I start missing my ex. I didn’t want to stay w my gf because that’d be unfair to her so I broke up. Then I texted my ex and she told me she hasn’t moved on either but she won’t get back because she wants someone different than me. She wants to explore other guys and find sm1 perfect for her. That was genuinely the most gut wrenching thing Ive ever heard. This genuinely feels so horrible.
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I don’t wat to lose her
Relationship Stress / by amicableCup5891
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June 3rd, 2024
...See more I’ve been in a new relationship. Been 3 months. For the first 2 months, she loved me a lot and talked to me everyday. Nowadays we barely talk. I try to instigate a conversation but it doesn’t last. She said this is because she’s under extreme stress and is studying for a long time everyday since our finals are coming. Those are in 9 months. I feel like she’s losing interest and just not breaking up because she doesn’t want to break my heart. I talked to her about this and she just tells me not to worry and that I’ve done nothing wrong and that she does like me and hasn’t lost interest. I keep overthinking and end up jumping to conclusions. I think about her every single second of every single day. This is extremely unhealthy, I know but it’s just how I am. I want to change that. I don’t want to completely make my personality about her. How can I do this.
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Fear of losing her.
Relationship Stress / by amicableCup5891
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May 27th, 2024
...See more My biggest worry right now is my girlfriend leaving me. She broke up with me once because she wasn’t ready to date and didn’t have enough time. She came back to me saying she still loved me and had to do it for the both of us. Now I feel like she’s straying away from me and I don’t know what to do it about it. It’s taking a big toll on my daily life and I’m losing interest in things I loved previously. She doesn’t communicate much as her phone is taken away frequently. We met up yesterday but couldn’t have any private talks as we were constantly surrounded by someone related to her. After the meet up she seemed to stray away further and I overthought and came to the conclusion that I’d done something wrong. I want to stop overthinking which is the biggest issue in my life right now.
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