Fear of losing her.
My biggest worry right now is my girlfriend leaving me. She broke up with me once because she wasn’t ready to date and didn’t have enough time. She came back to me saying she still loved me and had to do it for the both of us. Now I feel like she’s straying away from me and I don’t know what to do it about it. It’s taking a big toll on my daily life and I’m losing interest in things I loved previously. She doesn’t communicate much as her phone is taken away frequently. We met up yesterday but couldn’t have any private talks as we were constantly surrounded by someone related to her. After the meet up she seemed to stray away further and I overthought and came to the conclusion that I’d done something wrong. I want to stop overthinking which is the biggest issue in my life right now.
@amicableCup5891
One of the biggest things we have to learn in life is to control our overthinking...
if she has phone taken away often and you have not had much contact .... without supervision ......maybe her family does not want her to contact you... there can be tons of reasons of why......besides you personally.
so WHY do we, the over thinkers , make it about US ... what did we do? / what did we say ?.....
let those thoughts go is hard but only serves to make all situations more difficult .... It often makes us seem far more needy then they are comfortable with.
if it is meant to happen it will ..........if life happens and you drift apart perhaps it was not meant to be.