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I think my ex has Borderline Personality Disorder and I want him back!
Personality Disorders Support / by amicableSky7393
Last post
 December 13th, 2015
...See more Hello, My ex fiance of 10 years ended our relationship 3 weeks ago. Although he hasn't been diagnosed yet, all signs point to BPD which include: -Mood swings. -Harmful, impulsive behaviors. like snorting cocaine, out-of-control spending (he makes lots of money, gambles, gives out money to anyone implusive buying), risky sexual behavior (he's cheated on me), and driving under the influence of alcohol. -Low self-worth. He has an extreme hatred for himself. Lots of shame and guilt. -A fear of being left alone (abandoned). He has stated to me before on a few occasions that he worried that I would leave him. He feels empty and lost inside. Problems with anger, such as semi -violent temper tantrums [https://www.webmd.com/parenting/guide/preventing-temper-tantrums-in-children], over something minuscule. (Includes road rage and getting mad an inanimate objects). Hurting himself, (he used to be a cutter in his teens). Suicidal thoughts (he had a plan) severely depressed, feels he can't be happy even though he knows he should be. We had an amazing relationship, we're great together, we love each other and we have a child together. A few days ago he texted me saying he hasn't made up his mind about us not finding our way back together but only time will tell. He just wants me to be happy and for now it has to be without him. So I've been going to counseling and he starts therapy Jan 4th. I'm hoping this time apart and the therapy will only bring us closer and more stronger together and isn't the end. But perhaps he saw that something needed to be done and that ending things was what was needed even though he said he wasn't sure he did the right thing. Does time apart to work on ourselves help bring back a relationship? I just want our family back again.
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Anyone use the No Contatc/Minimal Contact Rule to try and get their ex back?
Relationship Stress / by amicableSky7393
Last post
 February 8th, 2016
...See more Hi, A week ago my fiance of 8 years (been together over 10) decides to end things. I thought things were great, we
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Not sure if it's over and too scared to want to know
Relationship Stress / by amicableSky7393
Last post
 December 17th, 2015
...See more My fiancé and I have been together 12 years, engaged for 8 and have a little girl together. We've always been great together but a few weeks ago he told me he's never been happy even though he says he should be. He says he's dealing with depression but is seeking help. He also says he doesn't know if things can be worked out between us. I have since left our house with our daughter and staying at a relatives until I can become stronger to face him. He wants me to come home so we can talk but I'm afraid he's going to tell me it's over. I know I need to face him eventually and I'm not keeping our daughter away from him, I just want to protect her from what's going on, plus she's sick with a bad cold. I'm scared and need some advice.
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