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carrotgoosoup
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Number of ratings30 Number of reviews14 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceAug 27, 2016 Last activein last week GenderNon-Binary PathStep 303 People helped54 Chats2,643 Group support chats10 Listener group chats449 Forum posts167 Forum upvotes244
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Currently not accepting new member chat requests unless I initiate the chat myself.
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Hi, I'm Soup šŸ›.Ā I'm glad you found this space of supportĀ šŸ’›Ā 

About me:

  • My pronouns: they/them/theirs 🌈

  • I'm a trained active and verified listener.

  • Some things that guide me as a listener are: curiosity, openness, and honesty.

  • I love learning more about others and talking through (not just as a listener, but as a fellow human being) what's on your mind.

Chats with me are:

  • 30-60 minutes long. I will let you know at the beginning of the chat how much time I have available.

  • Supportive, respectful, validating, engaging, and reflective.Ā 

  • Chats are for support for yourself, so please provide feedback on if the style, pacing, or other factors work/don't work for you.

  • Note: I generally only take one chat at a time, so that you have my undivided attention.


Recent forum posts
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What queer traditions do you have?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by carrotgoosoup
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December 30th, 2025
...See more Normally I spend time during the holidays with family. And eat all the desserts. But none of these gatherings are fully affirming and often feel more draining than joyful. I'm trying to think of what I want to do tradition or ritual wise and am looking for ideas on how to incorporate my queer identity. I want to celebrate me!Ā  Can I hear from you? What traditions do you have this time of year as a queer person?Ā 
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Some Reminders :)
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by carrotgoosoup
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October 26th, 2025
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You're Beautiful and Amazing
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by carrotgoosoup
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October 18th, 2025
...See more Sending some encouragement to all my queer buddies here 🫶
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Take What You Need
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by carrotgoosoup
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October 16th, 2025
...See more We all need things. For me, it's just living a boring (inject some privilege) life as a human being where people don't make assumptions of me, make comments, and having a space where I can just be. This mock tear our flyer is based on that. So, if you need it, take what you need. I hope it brings some comfort and love.
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National Coming Out Day
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by carrotgoosoup
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October 16th, 2025
...See more It's National Coming Out Day!Ā  For those who have come out, who or what helped you get there?Ā  For me it was... * Already having some queer friends in my life helped immensely. They immediately supported and celebrated me. I knew they were safe! * Open hearted people. I had people in my life that had values such as love, understanding, and able to see the complexity of human life. They demonstrated being an ally to queer people already and didn't see people as fixed, static beings. They loved on me and others in their lives. * Some family members. I eventually came out to some family members. Some I did directly, others it was in passing. They all noticed and they all responded differently. But I made those choices because they are important people that I saw often (by choice) and I would hate to stay closeted with them.
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Such a lovely person who shows empathy.
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Helpful, listens, calm and collected, actually thinks deeply and makes time for you
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This listener was nonjudgmental and understanding. I really appreciated the way they were simply present, listening to everything I said and offering a different perspective. It made me feel less alone, which really helped.
One of the best listeners I've had so far. Really proactive about finding probable solutions to problems and provides a lot of recourses. Really kind as well!
quick to the point, very helpful, great listener and adorable kitten picture
Very helpful, easily tracked with what I was saying, offered solid advice, and forwarded resources.
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s to my conversations....very helpful....very good listener.
Good listening skills
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