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I’m scared of life
Anxiety Support / by clovmss
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 August 29th, 2025
...See more Idk why am I feeling anxious every second of the day. I have nothing crazy going on in my life. I eat well sleep well. The only problem is my relationship issue with my bf. I think I could handle it on my own but I have that scared feeling that when the relationship fails everything in my life gonna fall apart. I tried to enjoy the moment but the fear always comes up to me. I’m only 16 and I’m very terrified of moving on with my life alone. I can’t imagine being alone without a partner.
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I need help
Relationship Stress / by clovmss
Last post
 August 22nd, 2025
...See more I really want our relationship to work out. I’m a teenage girl and I have a long distance bf who’s much more older than me. We’ve been dating for 2 years. Everything was going well for the first year. I was happy and feel safe with him. But then I found out he cheated on me and we got into a triangle relationship for a while. He eventually cut off that girl. But now I don’t feel safe with him. He said he feel bored with me. Every time we call it’s either fighting or stress talk. I try to have a non pressured conversation with him but he keep bringing up sexual topic like doing threesome. I feel uncomfortable. I can’t say it cause he said it’s his honesty. I told him to share everything in his mind with me. Then he said he don’t like how I look anymore. I look better back then. And he’s tired of online relationship. I’ve tried everything to make him happy. Such as learning about his hobbies, play games with him, fulfil his sexual needs. But how come it’s still not enough for him to appreciate me? Right now I’m just stuck. I very attached to him but I know he’s not good for me. And there’s no way I can change him. Please help
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I can’t get out of this relationship
Relationship Stress / by clovmss
Last post
 August 20th, 2025
...See more I’m 16 female and is currently in a long distance relationship with a 28 years old man. We started dating 2 years ago when I was 14. He first lied to me that he’s only 5 years older than me. But later on I found out he cheated on me on our second year and also found out his real age. At first I thought he was sweet and kind and someone I was always looking for. Now, after he cheated, lied, blamed me and gave me thousand of fake promises. I don’t think i can keep loving him while sacrificing my own needs. I’m so attached to him, even after everything I’m still so scared of him leaving. I’ll try anything and everything to make him happy. I’ll fulfil his sexual needs, let him criticise me, take the blame of I’m not matured enough. He always compare me to that girl who he cheated on me with. Even tho me and that girl were both 16. He said she’s more matured she needs to work hard like him while I’m born rich and don’t understand hardship. His guilt made him leave that girl for me. But I don’t feel loved like before anymore. He told me clearly this relationship is not what he’s looking for. He’s tired of online relationship and our future together is not promising. I keep blaming myself for not being old enough and not living in the same country as him. But it’s not something I can change. Were now stuck in a situation where were both unhappy but it’s still together bc I want to. I want to know is there any way to work this out.
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Why do guys cheat?
Relationship Stress / by clovmss
Last post
 August 8th, 2025
...See more I don’t understand why I got cheated by my bf. I was trying so hard to change myself for him. I was giving all of myself but at the end I found out he was betraying me the whole time. Why??
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Should I trust him again?
Relationship Stress / by clovmss
Last post
 August 5th, 2025
...See more Were long distance relationship. We’ve been together for a year and half. It was great for the first year. We call we laughed we cry we listen to each other do things tgt while video calling. I found myself while being with him and I was happier than ever. Few months ago he started to emotionally abused me due to his stress of work. He yelled at me and blamed me for his struggles. He made me feel small and not enough. He wanted to break up but I was too scared to live without him. Then I found out he was cheating on me for almost 6 months without me or that girl knowing. That girl contacted me first and admitted that she was hidden from it too. Atp I couldn’t believe it but also knew it was coming. I chose to give him another chance cuz I thought he stopped talking to that girl since she told me she want to leave for good. But then they were still talking behind my back while he promised me to cut her off. That keeps happening back and forth for some time. Me and him was always in contact while all the chaos was happening. He was talking to two girls for his own benefits. She comforts him for his struggles he feel seen and heard by her. While he dumps all his bad moods on me. I was tired but still not ready to leave. I was tied to the believe that I couldn’t do better without him. Now he apologised and cut her off completely with prove. He promised to work on himself to be better for me. Should I trust him?
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