Why do guys cheat?

@clovmss

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Never change for anyone.

Its on him.

You did nothing wrong .

You deserved better.

Never forget your worth.

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@clovmss yeah, one thing about cheating is that it's never ever about you 

You could be the hottest, best, more brilliant person in the world and he wouldve done it anyway- it's not your fault and the only person who can answer the question as to why is him 

wishing you all the best 🩷 everyone deserves a partner who wants them just as much 

Life will get better I went through it first when i was 19 and felt shame that i gave so much and so nothing was left for me when it is over.

If you do not heal and love yourself you will make the same mistake again. It is about who you chose to love you.

You will find someone who loves you more and makes you feel more even. Only change you should do should be the ones that you believe to be the right thing. Cause in the end you turn into a new person which he did not love and does not know and nothing like the person he met.

Someone will love you for who you are be kind to yourself and others that person will arrive when it is time.

Being young makes everything look horrible than it is. People get through everything as they are that strong.

It is best to work on yourself and be the person you want to be.

I hope you will feel better.

Hey clovmss,

First, I just want to say I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Betrayal like that doesn’t just break your heart it breaks your sense of self, your trust, your understanding of what was real.

You asked why and the truth is, sometimes there’s no satisfying answer. People cheat for all kinds of reasons: insecurity, selfishness, fear of confrontation, emotional immaturity, or even just chasing ego boosts. But none of those reasons make it your fault.

Changing yourself for someone, giving them everything, loving them fully those aren’t things you did wrong. They’re things you did from the heart. And if someone betrays that, it says far more about them than it ever could about you.

Please don’t let this convince you that you weren’t enough. You were too much for someone who didn’t know how to receive it with honesty and respect.

You deserve love that doesn’t ask you to shrink or bend or bleed to be worthy of it. You deserve someone who chooses you and honours you.

If you need space to talk more or just let it out, you’re not alone here.

Sending strength your way.