Should I trust him again?
Were long distance relationship. We’ve been together for a year and half. It was great for the first year. We call we laughed we cry we listen to each other do things tgt while video calling. I found myself while being with him and I was happier than ever.
Few months ago he started to emotionally abused me due to his stress of work. He yelled at me and blamed me for his struggles. He made me feel small and not enough. He wanted to break up but I was too scared to live without him. Then I found out he was cheating on me for almost 6 months without me or that girl knowing. That girl contacted me first and admitted that she was hidden from it too. Atp I couldn’t believe it but also knew it was coming. I chose to give him another chance cuz I thought he stopped talking to that girl since she told me she want to leave for good. But then they were still talking behind my back while he promised me to cut her off.
That keeps happening back and forth for some time. Me and him was always in contact while all the chaos was happening. He was talking to two girls for his own benefits. She comforts him for his struggles he feel seen and heard by her. While he dumps all his bad moods on me. I was tired but still not ready to leave. I was tied to the believe that I couldn’t do better without him. Now he apologised and cut her off completely with prove. He promised to work on himself to be better for me. Should I trust him?
@clovmss
Only you can make that decision 💜💕
But, no abuse is acceptable for any reason.
No belittement.
You deserve better.
He's responsible for his words and actions, not you.
Never accept less.
You deserve love that uplifts you and makes you feel safe 💜💕
It’s completely your choice, but sometimes giving it a little time can bring clarity. Maybe wait for a couple of months and observe how things unfold. If you still feel something isn’t right, gather the facts first—calmly and carefully. If it turns out he’s still being dishonest, speak to him openly. Let him know that you care about him and trust him, but you also deserve the same honesty and loyalty in return if the relationship is to continue.
It’s completely your choice, but sometimes giving it a little time can bring clarity. Maybe wait for a couple of months and observe how things unfold. If you still feel something isn’t right, gather the facts first—calmly and carefully. If it turns out he’s still being dishonest, speak to him openly. Let him know that you care about him and trust him, but you also deserve the same honesty and loyalty in return if the relationship is to continue.