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drmthwsn
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Things that make you happy...
Depression Support / by drmthwsn
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 May 16th, 2025
...See more Hello, I just wanted to make a post to ask, What kinds of things that make you happy? I'm trying to create a list for myself so i can do those small things each day, to get me through the day, but I'm here struggling to find a single things that makes me happy. So I was hoping I could take inspiration from what others have to say, and then maybe I can find something that makes me happy.
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This isn't anything new...but it isn't anything good
Relationship Stress / by drmthwsn
Last post
 May 11th, 2025
...See more I took notice of this a very long time ago, but whenever me and my partner get into a fight, I always want to reach out to my ex. I haven't actually done anything because I know that's the worst thing I could do. But it's like I crave for someone to care and to give me affection, when my partner becomes distant and avoids me. Even after some time by ourselves, they snubbed me and has completely avoided the issue at hand. And when it all settles down, then it always turns out to somehow be my fault that the argument started. And that's just the thing....all the arguments me and my current partner has ever gotten into, it's always made out to seem like I was the cause of the argument. I'm the reason the argument started in the first place. And now it's started to feel like even if I don't see it at first as my fault, eventually I've convinced myself that it is my fault. And I get sad because I never wanted to start a fight, and whenever we do fight, I instantly want to run into the arms of someone else. I don't understand that feeling. Why do I yearn to be with someone else?
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I want to seek warmth and comfort from someone else..
Relationship Stress / by drmthwsn
Last post
 April 16th, 2025
...See more Me and my partner had a pretty big fight, and neither of us were able to be there for each other at our darkest times. But now we're in the process of trying to repair the disconnection but I still feel very lonely. I wanted them to be heard first as they need that in order to be there for me. And it may have taken some processing but I finally understood their perspective. But after listening to them and holding myself accountable, it feels I am unable to express my feelings and thoughts to them. It feels like I al prioritizing how they feel before I say anything about how I feel. Which then makes me feel lonely because during our disagreement, the only one who I really was trying to seek comfort and solace from was my partner but they were very unresponsive. So I sit here craving warmth because I still have yet to receive any after what I had gone through during the argument. Am I being selfish? Ami being inconsiderate? I can't understand this feeling really. But I am feeling desperate.
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My partner has done it again...
Relationship Stress / by drmthwsn
Last post
 March 4th, 2025
...See more So my partner and I just went through something small, a disagreement about communication, but now it has led to the point where we are not talking to each other even though we live under the same roof. in previous disagreements, when we finally get on the same page we discuss what we could of done or what we could have done better. And over and over again we have both AGREED that it is not okay to go the night without discussing the issue. But here I am alone. While they isolate themselves after I've specifically stated that it is not okay for them to do that. But they choose to do it anyway...I don't know what to do because honestly that really tore at me. And I am very hurt because of it. Instead of us talking it out peacefully and quickly, they are dragging it out. Which then makes it worse. and on top of that, I am going through a mental breakdown where I don't know what I am doing with my life or what my purpose for living is. I don't know what to do, I'm here to vent out my feelings because I barely have a safe space to let it out. It at times like these where I wish I had more close friends.
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Am I the only one to feel this way?
Relationship Stress / by drmthwsn
Last post
 October 12th, 2024
...See more Most of the time when I ask for something to be done and my partner doesn't do it right away, I don't let it bother me. But once in a while it doesn't really bother me. And I can't understand why. And because it took to long to complete, I then go and do the task myself. But they get mad cause they said they would do it and I couldn't wait for them to complete the task. Am I really the only one that feels like when I ask for something to be done, I would like for it to be done at the moment.
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How to get my partner to understand my Autism?
Autism Support / by drmthwsn
Last post
 July 28th, 2024
...See more My partner has been struggling to show understanding or comprehension of what my autism looks like. I myself find it very difficult to explain sometimes, so even I can be at a loss for words. How can I get my partner to understand certain things about myself when it's too hard to use words?
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