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PathStep 12 Compassion hearts644 Forum posts52 Forum upvotes81 Current upvotes81 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2026 Member sinceAugust 25, 2016
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struggles
Depression Support / by flimflamblam
Last post
 September 20th
...See more It's hard to get out of bed in the morning. At the end of the day I find myself crying by myself, hopeless. I wonder how long I can keep this up before I need to make a major change.  I am tired of smiling and pretending to be okay. I let some people in my life but in my experience people are afraid when I am honest about what I think about and struggle with. 
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managing well being
Depression Support / by flimflamblam
Last post
 June 13th
...See more my trauma got flared up last week and since then i've been in different waves of depression. my therapist has been supporting me and some listeners here. i really need to be serious about taking care of myself. i feel so bad. here are some things i want to take seriously: -give less of my time to things that eat up my energy -sleep more/enough/earlier -say kind things to myself -call a warmline if i am thinking of harmful thoughts
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update? dissociation and ghosty time?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by flimflamblam
Last post
 June 4th
...See more i'm coming up for air since my last post. i realize that i am so numb and disconnected from what is happening in the world. my safety continues to be in question but i dont even care anymore? does it even matter if i exist anymore? i dont even know.  sometimes i feel those old emotions of wanting to dream again. to feel safe and to make sure my fellow queer folks do too. but it gets covered in sadness, grief, and overwhelm. a really suffocating sweaty fur jacket.
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what's the point?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by flimflamblam
Last post
 December 16th, 2025
...See more This might be better suited in the depression forum but uhhh oh well. I've come to the conclusion that no one really wants to hear or see the real me. I've been told to be too much in my feelings, thoughts/thought process, and even in my identity. Learning pronouns is too much of a hassle.  I reconnected with a friend tooday and I had a strange experience feeling like a bot. I'm going to validate and validate this friend in order to stay friends. I was wondering if this is my existence and how I would be appreciated by others. Just mask and mask?  It's a a sad existence and I'm just hopeless. 
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long term listener?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by flimflamblam
Last post
 October 29th, 2025
...See more i know this community is not as active as others, but maybe i'll ask here? i'm looking for a long term listener (my previous one had his account banned for some reason). issues: -trans identity -work stress  -stress related to community affected by administration (united states) thanks!
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mental health toilet
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by flimflamblam
Last post
 October 19th, 2025
...See more well, it was nice while it lasted.  i'm sad again. i hate my body.  i'm so tired of existing.  and i'm tired of whining about this.
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Queer Strengths
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by flimflamblam
Last post
 November 10th, 2025
...See more What strengths or sparkly awesomeness do you have, as a queer person?
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National Coming Out Day
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by flimflamblam
Last post
 October 11th, 2025
...See more Depends on where you're located and time zone... 🌈 Happy Coming Out Day! 🌈 Wherever you're at in your journey, coming out is your own decision and experience. You get to decide who to do that with. And if you have trouble figuring out how to do that, know that people are here for you. You aren't alone in this ♥️
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