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giraffe1203
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Am i being “outcasted” by my own friends?
Relationship Stress / by giraffe1203
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 March 3rd, 2021
...See more So i’m in a close group of 4 including me. But lately (since 2 months) they have gone out without me. And i feel like i’m being ignored. When I talk to them, they barely respond. But one of three is (or was) really close as she’s my roomies. I tried talking to her if anything is fine, she said nothing wrong. They went out travel as 3 to another city for 4 nights and an hour before going they told me “if you want to come, just come.” coldly even when I didn’t say anything. I was being s u i c i d a l tried to k i l l myself before. I wrote my problems on letter, after knowing my letter they start to feel apologetic and the next day they start talking badly about me. My roomies, baked me a cake. But it was full sugar. And that day I was really sick, my gerd acting up I had trouble breathing. I vomited a lot and barely able to sleep. My roommate got angry and force me to finish up the cake coldy, saying it’s impolite. I have no intention to throw it away, I was about to keep it and eat it another day. I ended up not being able to go to school today and keep vomiting the whole day. My roomie got back and spot the cake still left. she reheated it and told me to finish it up. I pretended saying “it tasted better.” She coldly say “I don’t care.” At this point i feel like she’s trying to k i l l me.
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Lack of communication? is it okay..
Relationship Stress / by giraffe1203
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 February 28th, 2021
...See more The guy i’m currently seeing is a national footballer so he’s really busy. He’s in club out of the city so I can’t see him often, almost only once a month. He treats me really well when we meet. But the problem is he rarely communicate with me. He did promise to text / call me more, but only at the beginning. He once said that he’s having a hard time doing the same routine everyday, training even during holiday, and by the time he can hold his phone, he’s dead tired. He only communicate with me like 10 times a month? (including text and phone calls). Only to say he misses me a lot and so. I know his best friend and he (bestie) said that he barely contact him either. I don’t know if this is normal or not. Do you think I should be more understanding about his situation or it’s actually a red flag (he’s lying or so?)
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Should i leave him?
Relationship Stress / by giraffe1203
Last post
 February 21st, 2021
...See more There’s a guy i’ve been seeing for 5 months. We are not into commitment. He told me that his life is hard, too busy to provide me a nice relationship. But no matter how you see it, we are just like how couple acts. No matter how busy he was, he would at least text me once a day. everything went really well, we even spend a lot of time together. usually 1-2 a month, but it was 4 times in 2-3 weeks. but suddenly on saturday he told me, something bad happened to him. and its too long to explain. i asked if he’s okay. he said yes he’s fine. and i told him if he need anything, tell me. he didn’t read it for 3 days while updating instagram post that he just bought a new laptop (he’s not social media person). so i texted him again, “whats up? are you busy?” then the next day he replied. “sorry. something bad happened so i don’t text with anyone”. i replied “okay i wont text you. i hope everything is okay. dont be sad, good luck!” he left it on read and since then he’s gone. no words, nothing. i don’t know what should i do. should i just leave him or wait for him? and honestly currently he’s one of my biggest happiness. it feels empty without him. he used to search for me when i’m gone for even half day. and now he’s gone for days. I’m just too afraid to reach out for him because he might be busy too... Also he put my text on mute. Saw it when he showed me his phone. I can see all the people he chatted with (mostly work), no other girl or anything, but i do wonder why he put me on mute when i don’t even text him much? (1-3 times a day).
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