Lack of communication? is it okay..
The guy i’m currently seeing is a national footballer so he’s really busy. He’s in club out of the city so I can’t see him often, almost only once a month. He treats me really well when we meet. But the problem is he rarely communicate with me. He did promise to text / call me more, but only at the beginning. He once said that he’s having a hard time doing the same routine everyday, training even during holiday, and by the time he can hold his phone, he’s dead tired. He only communicate with me like 10 times a month? (including text and phone calls). Only to say he misses me a lot and so. I know his best friend and he (bestie) said that he barely contact him either. I don’t know if this is normal or not. Do you think I should be more understanding about his situation or it’s actually a red flag (he’s lying or so?)
@giraffe1203
You sound unsure about this relationship so I want to ask you: What do you need out of this relationship in order to be happy? Maybe you need more attention or more reasurance that you are the only one?
I think it's important to figure out what you need from this relationship. If you need more attention from your partner, think about how you might make that possible. If you need more reassurance that you are the only one, think about what might give you that peace of mind. Once you've figured out what you need from the relationship, I would talk to him about that and find out if he is satisfied with the current relationship or if he needs something more. Having all of this information should help you figure out what to do moving forward.
