Should i leave him?
There’s a guy i’ve been seeing for 5 months. We are not into commitment. He told me that his life is hard, too busy to provide me a nice relationship. But no matter how you see it, we are just like how couple acts. No matter how busy he was, he would at least text me once a day. everything went really well, we even spend a lot of time together. usually 1-2 a month, but it was 4 times in 2-3 weeks. but suddenly on saturday he told me, something bad happened to him. and its too long to explain. i asked if he’s okay. he said yes he’s fine. and i told him if he need anything, tell me. he didn’t read it for 3 days while updating instagram post that he just bought a new laptop (he’s not social media person). so i texted him again, “whats up? are you busy?” then the next day he replied. “sorry. something bad happened so i don’t text with anyone”. i replied “okay i wont text you. i hope everything is okay. dont be sad, good luck!” he left it on read and since then he’s gone. no words, nothing. i don’t know what should i do. should i just leave him or wait for him? and honestly currently he’s one of my biggest happiness. it feels empty without him. he used to search for me when i’m gone for even half day. and now he’s gone for days. I’m just too afraid to reach out for him because he might be busy too... Also he put my text on mute. Saw it when he showed me his phone. I can see all the people he chatted with (mostly work), no other girl or anything, but i do wonder why he put me on mute when i don’t even text him much? (1-3 times a day).
For me advice u to leave him because if he loves u. And even he is Busy or something like that, he must to found 5 min to text u or to call u a day
he told me he’s stress and dealing with some problem so he don’t want to contact anyone... so should i just leave him? this is the first time he did this to me..
He doesn’t want commitment that’s for sure. I say leave him before you get too stuck
we actually talked about the commitment thing.. i just want to keep our friendship at least. but having no communication for days really made me sad..
I am going through the same thing as you... Seeing my friends in a loving situation made me realise one thing. Even if the guy is in a hard situation they never forgot about their special person. Thus it made me realise, ah it’s because he doesn’t see me that way. In relation to being his friend, is he even treating you as a friend? Not talking for days and all. One thing as well, it’s hard to be friends with someone you have feelings for. Are you going to be okay with that?